As I might have already explained, I’m deeply impatient. So impatient, in fact, that if foreplay lasts longer than ten minutes I am liable to cry. I was once mocked by a guy, who was far keener on build-up than I was, because apparently the only thing I ever said in bed was “pleasepleasepleaseplease.” I don’t know what he was upset about – it’s certainly better than “mehmehmehmeh.”
Anyway, because I love guest blogs, and particularly guest blogs from people who have a different perspective to me, the following excellent post by Helz captures perfectly her delight in making someone wait. And wait. And then…
Antici….pation
Okay, yes, I did steal this title from a Rocky Horror lyric. Shoot me. It’s very apt though.
What is almost better than a conquest is the magnetism, the frission, leading up to it. It’s something organic between two people that can’t be forced, you both have to want to rip the clothes off and melt into each other so badly and you both know it. No one has made the first move yet and all you have is heavily layered conversation where you can barely focus on the words because even talking to each other makes you wet, and you’re zoned in on her mouth, her lips…her skin and her eyes, boring into yours and you both know that you’re going to see a lot more than each other’s eyes later on… but not yet. That anticipation, that mutual magnetism, is pretty rare yet so delicious. The excitement, and the wonder that you might be mistaken, that she might not want you and it’s all in your head and the electricity that zaps right down through you at the thought of her is what makes the whole exchange magical.
I like to, whilst making out with someone, draw back. Make them wait for our lips to meet and shrink away from their touch. Soften my gaze and my body, make it look completely touchable, mutely draw them in with my eyes, then refuse them. When your lips are centimeters away from mine and you can actually feel my warmth, but you’re unable to touch me because I keep drawing away… I know that you really want me. I like making you want me. The frantic, hot, hard kisses and touches you give me after that after being denied for so long show how much you crave this, crave me…
Before I eat out a girl I like to make her anticipate it for a very long time. I love the downy inner thigh which leads up to your cunt, and I love to linger on it for as long as I possibly can, giving your butterfly butterfly kisses and softly kissing, licking and stroking your thighs, occasionally giving your lower lips some very, very light touches or kisses, and I do this until I know that you are biting your lip to mask your croaks and moans, so hard that it could draw blood, until you’re dripping with ladyjuice and until you’re rolling your eyes upwards, as if you’re praying to some Sapphic goddess. I know you’re tingling with desire all over and I kiss your lower self harder and harder and slloooowwwly work my way to your cunt and start very gently, just when you think you’ll get some form of release I stop and kiss your pelvis and your stomach, then work my way down again until you quiver and your knees buck…
You like the anticipation, sometimes, more than you like the actual sex act, and the fact that you want it, me, so much makes me horny as hell and gives me almost as much satisfaction as if you were giving it to me.
Then it’s my turn.
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Maybe it’s my Catholic upbringing but I’m a big fan of this kind of denial. Tease me until I can’t take any more and I’ll pretty much come the instant you finally touch my cunt.
My current lover is more the impatient type, but it works out because instead he likes to take me right to the edge and then not let me come. He’ll count sometimes, slowly, working down from 100, and tell me I mustn’t come until he reaches zero or I beg him to let me come sooner. And as he counts he’ll touch me, and fuck me, and I’ll want to come before he even reaches 80 but he won’t let me. He knows exactly how far to push me, and when to pull back and leave me frustrated, until when he finally reaches the end and tells me to come it’s a huge orgasm that rips out of me and leaves me utterly spent. There are definitely worse ways to spend an evening.
Unnghf.
Great to find some girl on girl stuff here. I love your writing girlonthenet, and I’ve been a follower for ages, but I’ve also been hoping for so long to find a blog like this but for women who like women!
Is there more to be found from Helz?
She’s ace, isn’t she? I’d love to have more posts like that – if you’d like to contribute anything just let me know! Helz asked to be anonymous but for that name, but I’ll pass your feedback on to her as I’m sure she’d be pleased to know how much you enjoyed the post!