Author Archives: Missy

Missy is a 47 year old bisexual, working, married mother of two who runs the fabulous photographic sex blog Focused and Filthy. Over there, she shares gorgeous intimate photos of herself, her husband, and some of the beautiful people who join them for fun. She started blogging after finding herself frustrated by society's opinions on women and sex in general, then started engaging with the sex blogging community and joining in with memes and projects. "I love sex, have a wonderful relationship with my husband, which is forever changing and getting better and I’m not afraid to say it. I’ve got some new found body confidence and realise that I am a sexy creature, who has a normal mother’s body – with stretch marks and wobbly bits - and that’s still OK. This isn’t shown in today’s media. We aren’t encouraged to talk or think about sex. Sexual exploration, freedom, health and enjoyment are my goals. And if my blog can in some way help to redress the balance then I will be super happy." Follow Missy on Bluesky and Mastodon and check out her blog at Focused and Filthy!

Black rope: Photographing her, naked and restrained

This stunning post is written and read by Missy of Focused and Filthy. I haven’t been able to share the photos themselves because I have a feeling that might get me in trouble with regards to the UK’s Online Safety Act. If you are browsing from outside the UK though, you click any of the links to see some of the stunning photographs that Missy talks about in this piece. 

She promised to be my model and I’d previously suggested rope so there I was in some skimpy short pyjamas on a Sunday morning with a hangover thinking ‘how do I tie her up?!’ Luckily I knew her body well enough by this point to enjoy threading the soft black rope around her torso. Lining up the strands and pulling her breasts together as I looped it over her shoulders and around her wrists at the back. She stood smiling at me quietly, waiting for me to position her.

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Guest blog: Tied and given multiple orgasms

The delight of being restrained isn’t always in the restraint itself, but in what happens while you’re tied up. Such is the case in this stunning scene written by the wonderful Missy of Focused & Filthy. She’s written some fantastic pieces here before, including introducing us to the genius concepts of the cum hat trick and ‘husband sitting‘. So I’m over the moon to welcome her back with this intense, powerful account of being tied up and given multiple orgasms…

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Guest blog: Husband sitting – keeping him entertained

I am so delighted to welcome Missy back to the blog today – Missy writes (and posts stunningly horny photographs) over at Focused & Filthy, and she’s featured here before with an absolutely incredible piece about completing the cum ‘hat trick.’ The ‘hat trick’, of course, refers to getting cum in each hole – mouth, cunt and ass – over the course of 24 hours. WHAT A CONCEPT. Here to cement her reputation as a pioneer of Cool New Sex Concepts, today Missy is going to introduce you to the idea of ‘husband sitting.’ If you like openness and sharing in your relationships, you might want to make a note of this…

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Guest blog: The hat trick – cum in each hole

I probably don’t even need to write an intro for this one. The awesome Focused and Filthy (@FocusedFilthy) – she of the astonishingly hot blog, gorgeous photographs, and deliciously creative fucking, is here to tell you about the ‘hat trick’. And by ‘hat trick’ she means getting cum in each hole. As I say, needs no introduction. As long as I’ve SEO’d it properly, this is going to be the one of the most popular guest blogs of 2022, possibly of all time (and I’ve been doing this for eleven years). Missy’s exceptionally filthy and joyous descriptions of getting cum in her mouth, cunt and ass live up so beautifully to the promise of the title, I have no doubt that this post will launch ten thousand wanks. Have at it.

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