Tag Archives: confidence

May 08

On sex on a first date

How did it ever come to be accepted wisdom that if a girl sleeps with a guy on a first date she’ll never see him again? This information, as well as being at direct odds with my own experience, doesn’t … Read More

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Apr 16

On what is not wrong with you, part 6: having bodily functions

Let us discuss the word ‘ladylike.’ This word conjures the idea of demure high-society women nibbling on tiny sandwiches before patting daintily at their unsullied lips with napkins. Sorry, serviettes. Or whatever one calls them in order to avoid a … Read More

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Apr 07

On telling everyone

I’ve heard it said that one should never kiss and tell. But I disagree. Naturally. If this were a universal moral truth there’d be no discussion of sex other than as an abstract concept, and certainly no sex blogs for us … Read More

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Apr 01

On female domination

I love it when guys I’m with give me commands. “Pull down your pants.” “Bend over this.” “Open your fucking mouth.” Being told to do something gets me much much hotter than when they drop subtle hints: a command is … Read More

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