Buttplugs, pegging, and pushing the fuck back

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This dude is pushing back so hard that when I saw this pic I had to go for a 'lie down'

Image by the brilliant Stuart F Taylor

If I’ve lubed you up and spread your legs, and held your hips steady while I slide something deep into you, there are plenty of things you can do to let me know you appreciate it. Make that face that’s a cross between surprise and pain, grunt a guttural moan at the back of your throat, or place your hands somewhere on me and squeeze tightly while I move. But when I’m fucking you – whether I’m pegging you with a strap on or sliding a butt plug deep into your ass – there’s one thing I want you to do above all others: push back.

Push.

Back.

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In defence of 21 Grams – the dildo made of human ashes

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Today, while the rest of the internet celebrates Ed Balls day, sex bloggers are instead faced with ‘why is everyone sending me pictures of a dildo made of human ashes?‘ Day.

In case you hadn’t already seen it RTd repeatedly with the comment ‘eww’, here’s a quick overview: 21 Grams is a memory box that allows a grieving person to collect together a bunch of intimate memories about their loved one. It contains speakers to play their favourite music (aww), a scent bottle for holding their loved one’s perfume (aww) and a blown glass dildo that contains a golden urn for their ashes (apparently, eww). The following quote is taken from the article above.

“21 Grams is a memory-box that allows a widow to go back to the intimate memories of a lost beloved one,” explained Sturkenboom [the designer]. “After a passing, the missing of intimacy with that person is only one aspect of the pain and grief. This forms the base for 21 Grams. The urn offers the possibility to conserve 21 grams of ashes of the deceased and displays an immortal desire.

“By bringing different nostalgic moments together like the scent of his perfume, ‘their’ music, reviving the moment he gave her her first ring, it opens a window to go back to moments of love and intimacy,” he said.

General content warning: this post contains a pretty frank and probably controversial discussion of sex and death.

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Accommodator: can double penetration live up to the fantasy?

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With one of these you too can be like that dude off Reddit who had two cocks and who i fell in love with a bitAre you ready for a smoking hot double penetration fantasy, combined with a story about the couple who tried to make that DP fantasy come true? ‘Course you are. This is the next post in the Sex Fairies series, in which SexToys.co.uk fulfil people’s requests for cool products, and those people write about them for your entertainment and arousal.

Today’s intrepid poster and her partner had a fantasy about achieving double penetration, and she requested the accommodator dual penetrator (pictured below). I have always fancied trying something like this out myself – it’s a pretty unique kind of strap on, given that it allows the wearer to have two dicks to fuck with. I know, right? Super hot. Read on…

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What happens when you lose your virginity?

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if there were an actual virginity-losing certificate and it came through the post and your parents would go 'oh look a letter arrived for you how exciting what does it say?'

Image by the brilliant Stuart F Taylor

The evening I lost my virginity I lay awake in bed staring at the wall, willing myself to feel special. I assumed that with that magical penis-in-vagina moment, something fundamental about me would change. I couldn’t put my finger on what, exactly – I didn’t expect sparks, or revelations, or for the world to burst into glorious technicolour like it did in the Wizard of Oz. I just thought I’d feel… different.

I didn’t, and looking back at that moment as an adult that’s a blessed relief. Imagine if there really were a significant change bestowed upon someone just because they happened to have completed a particular sex act. If it shone out of them like a traffic light, blinking ‘green’ for ‘has fucked’. It’d be quite disturbing, not to mention really awkward over breakfast with your family.

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Guest blog: Couple crush

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Sometimes I struggle to come up with ideas on what to write about. I’m ideally looking for something that makes me go ‘ooh’ and makes a bunch of other people go ‘OMG yeah me too.’ So basically, if you pitch me a guest blog that makes me do both of these things, I will bite your hand off.

This week’s is one that’s just like that.

I’ve rarely seen anyone talk about getting a crush on a couple, but I get it ALL THE TIME. Like, ALL of the time. And I don’t just mean Frank and Claire Underwood – couples I know in real life, see in the street or the park being all sexy with each other and smooching each other’s faces off.

Ever had a couple crush? RB has, and she’s going to tell you all about it…

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