On throatfucking

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The best position in which to give a blow job is flat on my back. Flat on my back with my head hanging off the side of the bed – mouth stretched out, wide open. Hands pinned beneath me, or in the grip of the guy whose cock is jammed nice and hard into my throat.

Blow jobs are fun, don’t get me wrong – the playful control of having someone in your mouth is good. Experimenting with varying levels of pressure, using my hands differently, swallowing as much of your cock as I can. All of it’s good, but none comes close to the sheer passive joy of being fucked in the throat.

It’s rough, and it’s painful, and it makes my eyes water. There’s something deeply satisfying about a guy who makes me choke – a guy who makes me feel like I’ve never been treated so abysmally.

Giving a blow job is a fun thing to do – being throatfucked is something to endure. A challenge offered by the guy – can you take this? Can I do this for as long as I want? Will you choke down on my dick until I spray come so hard down your throat you barely need to swallow?

Men make more noise during throatfucking than they do when you’re blowing them. They grunt, they moan, if they’re particularly brilliant they might occasionally interject with ‘that’s it’ or ‘oh, good girl‘.

Because I pick the boys who like the power.

As ever, it’s about being used

One of my friends likes to greet me by pushing me to my knees as soon as I get inside his front door. He’ll get me at just the right height, push my head back so it’s braced against the wall, then shove his dick into my mouth until I can feel the head pushing against the back of my neck. Until my eyes water and I’m drooling down onto my tits. He doesn’t even hold my head – he uses his hands to casually lift his shirt – keeping it away from the mess he’s making of me. And he’ll keep his cock there and keep fucking, and fucking, and fucking until I cry, or he comes, or both.

The reason I like throatfucking is that it makes me feel like I could be anyone. This guy doesn’t want me – he doesn’t think I’m cool, or interesting, or witty – he just wants somewhere – anywhere – to put his dick.

It’s not romantic, it’s not controlled – it’s a nice, quick, easy way to get off.

The hard part

The tricky thing about throatfucking is that guys are generally pretty nice. No one you’re fucking actually wants to kill you. They always start off gently – afraid that you’ll choke, or vomit, or become horrified and run the fuck away.

But with enough patience, and enough time, I can get a guy to understand that if I lean my head over the arm of the sofa and really stretch myself out, he can fuck my throat as hard as he’d fuck my cunt. And when he looks nervous and eases up to let me breathe I can look up at him with pleading, red-rimmed eyes and moan like I can feel it, like I want him to come. Moan as if all I want in life is to be a passive toy for him to fuck. As if the taste of his come is the only thing that can make me happy at that exact moment. Like I want it more than I want to stop choking and be able to breathe again.

Because… well… it’s true.

 

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105 Comments

  • anonymouse says:

    hot damn. my endurance level for throatfucking is still pretty low, but good lord is it fun.

  • Sarah says:

    Just sent my bloke a very explicit text about giving this ago next time I see him, absolutely love your blog nice to see someone so open about their sexuality and fantasies. Most girls nowadays are too vanilla and scared to actually talk about what they want and like – I salute you!

  • First things first. Question of definition. I call it face fucking. My favourite dom taught me that. Hands tied behind my back with bondage tape. Cock so far up my throat that I was oscillating between being choked and sick with saliva literally flooding my mouth and spilling out onto my face. Absolutely love the fuck toy aspect of it.

  • deepimpact says:

    A while back I was out with another, very well known one-time sex blogger and some comedians, one of whom made the schoolboy error of asking my friend “What’s the furthest you’ve ever gone?” Her answer, which involved throatfucking til she vomited blood, caused the funny guys to turn suddenly quite pale, and I loved her all the more for it.

  • Guy says:

    You’re my kind of girl, word for word! I find something deeply satisfying about making a girl choke, and knowing that it is rough and painful for her. And it never ceases to entertain me how a girl can just sit there and take it, like some sort of pitiful enslaved servant. Robbing that sense of worth and dignity form her. All because she wants to satisfy me, to get me off.

    I also like the debasing factor. Like you said, it doesn’t matter who you are, it’s not about love, it’s about the sheer fun of using you in such an amusing and arousing way.

    I love hearing the slosh of her throat, the sound of her gagging, seeing her eyes glaze over in tears, and the constant bouts of drool oozing from her hurt throat, and giving her that moment to spit it out quickly and gasp so I can go again and again. I look forward to seeing how much she has to spit each time, it’s so amusing and hot!

    • SomethingWrong says:

      Just think about that for a minute. You like hurting a female and watching her being debased and in pain, that’s pretty sick really….
      and girls who want that?
      Wow, that is sad.

      • Noone says:

        Can’t speak for the “Guy” who made the original post… but as a male Bisexual Switch with a oral Fetish (giving and receiving) let me say something about how I go about face fucking my “pet” (human being doing kitten play just so there is no confusion)

        Ahem… IT IS ONLY IN THE CONTEXT OF A FRIENDSHIP WITH MUTUAL RESPECT AND TRUST THAT I HAVE EVER EXPLORED RELATIONSHIPS THAT INVOLVE DEBASING, OBJECTIFICATION, IMPACT, ETC., ETC.

        I do not know whether the “Guy” who posted above you are responding to has a similar context… if I was at a kink event I would probably be more comfortable if the girl he was doing it to was there they were interacting with mutual respect out of scene… which is often the case.

      • DystonicRxn says:

        I do understand your concern for at first blush this act seems very angry and hostile to woman. If you read the other comments here the woman actually enjoys it.
        This act is being performed by two consenting adults and there is no sexual abuse as far as I can tell.

        To be fair, I would never do anything that would cause my partner pain or permanent/irreparable harm. Also I love when my partner rides my face which some may think is demeaning and causing pain to me. It does at times cause pain as rubbing her pubic bone again my lips and face can hurt, but it is an enjoyable type of pain which quickly subsides.

    • kibbles says:

      bingo…nailed it. her willful submission to our terrible desires, all because she wants to please you… it’s hot.

  • Imogen says:

    yes, yes, yes. Throat fucking is such a joy. It scares me a lot and my tolerance level could stand to be improved. great excuse for more practice then…

  • Throat pounder says:

    Holy hell. This post so completely encapsulated my entire sexual appetite. For me it’s all about control and power. Using size and physical power to just destroy her even after she’s submitted.

    Where the hell can I find women like you all? Please help me. I haven’t found the one that can take all I have to give. I feel so unfulfilled

  • Izzy says:

    Hi. I’m a 25 year old chic who absolutely loves taking a cock deep into my throat. In normal life I have plenty of confidence and self-respect, a management position at the company I work for and a very busy, interesting life. But when I’m in bed with a fella I want him to take control. I’m happy with myself just the way I am so I do not worry about what he’s going to think of me if I show him my dirty desires.

    I’ve only ever slept with 3 guys in my life but I’ve blown 3 more. I just freaking love it. I love giving head, but when the guy has enough balls to take control away from me and fuck my face, I melt. Just as much as for blokes it is a power trip, for girls it’s a safety thing – when a guy can dominate is makes me thing he is confident, not afraid to take charge and make decisions, which then makes him a provider and protector, all of which is a turn on for girls, which is deeply rooted in our brains from the captain cave men days.

    Since I was a teenager I’ve dreamed of it and thought most chics are like me, but now I’ve leanered I’m probably kinkier than most. This guy I’ve been seeing recently told me he’s never had such great sex in his life and is doing things with me that he’s never contemplated before. I was never trying to pretend I’m innocent or trying to get into a relationship with him so I openly showed him the real me. Now he’s ready to leave his gf of 10 years to be with me.

    All this is because I am happy with myself an will do what I like and not worry about why they are gonna think. Chics with no confidence who do the same things in bed as I do but only to please a fella get dumped, sadly. Why? Because they give out wrong vibes. They try to make a bloke like them through going beyond what feels comfortable in bed. I just do it because I like it and I like making a bloke cum and tasting his semen. I love my head hanging on the edge of the bed with cock down my throat. I love it when they talk dirty – it turns me on. But I would never think of doing all that just to keep a guy.

  • Bill says:

    I’m a guy but being throatfucked is far and away my MOST favorite sex act!! Aside from this I’m 100% straight! I’m married and I have always loved women, but ever since I was a teenager I have been an insatiable cocksucker. My best friend Larry, who had a HUGE cock introduced me to throat fucking and after I’d learned how to suppress my gag reflex, I’d allow him to force his cock all the way down my throat so that he could very roughly fuck my throat until he came!! I loved it!! On more than a few occasions I’d orgasm myself purely from the erotic stimulation from being throatfucked! I enjoyed being subjugated and “used”! I liked being impersonally treated like a sex object

    • Jimmy says:

      You suck dick. You are not 100% straight. Admit it and enjoy it.

      • Girl on the net says:

        Not your business to tell other people what they are, Jimmy. Off you fuck, mate.

        • RedLovesHerMonster says:

          I love you.

        • J Rawlings says:

          Woah wait a minute. The guy sucks dick and says he’s straight. Now, he can say it as much as he likes, but it’s factually incorrect.. That’s just lying to yourself. Jimmy encouraged him to accept who he is and enjoy it.Nothing wrong with that. Go Jimmy, and off YOU fuck, Girlsonthenet.

  • sandanonyy says:

    Why would anyone want to be ‘treated abysmally’?

    • Guy says:

      @ sandanonny – Women love abysmal treatment. That’s just a quirk of female nature, and even effeminate men. Women are inherently masochistic, though not all of them accept or embrace this. There’s something in their psyche that loves to be abused, specifically at the hands of a strong male. When tapped into, pain and abuse becomes like ecstasy for them, endorphin release galore. Natures way of “rewarding” women for being submissive, so as not to get themselves killed trying to dominate when they are unfit. They get a taste of this, and always come back for more. Nature at work.

      In a nutshell, that’s why women love to have their throat’s fucked up on a hard cock. As always, men have to do what they have to do. It’s impossible to satisfy women, but in this case, that in itself is deeply satisfying.

      • Girl on the net says:

        This is complete and utter toss.

        • Guy says:

          Maybe on the surface, but I’m not sure what irks you more, the sarcasm or the truth behind it? You can deny biology and the stringing together of simple truths, if saying things like “different strokes” makes you feel that much better.

          I’m simply suggesting there is a very real reason why women are primarily submissive in most all aspects of life, let alone sexual activity. Sure, they can blame men for the bulk of it, but it’s really not us, we’re not holding you back/down/whatever. You do it to yourselves because that is in your biology, that’s really all I’m saying. I’m not saying that’s a bad thing, nor am I seriously suggesting that it is what you or any woman “should” do, just simply saying that’s what women do, have done, and will continue to do. Okay, so not all women like to be dominated and controlled, but most of them do to at least some extent.

          The weak are usually submissive (when they are not, it is often to their own peril), and there are internal biological responses to submissiveness that keep the weak content with their submissive behavioral patterns. This has all been evidenced in biological studies, plenty of times. You should research it. That “something deeply satisfying” you refer to in this post is actually fairly straightforward. A quick lesson in biology can explain to people why someone like yourself might admit to the fact that they like being treated abysmally.

          • Girl on the net says:

            This, also, is complete and utter toss. Thanks for playing.

          • Noone says:

            @ Guy – When you are in a hole stop digging. BTW if you want a logical understanding it is very simple: You are making hypothetical guesses at causality using nothing but a string of opinions regarding facts that can easily be interpreted in different ways. EXAMPLE: Weak people are often the loudest and most insecure in my experience… and BOOM just like that your whole conclusion falls apart depending on who you are asking… or which perspective you look at it from.

            BTW the biggest and most damning thing about your whole analysis (for most of us this would be embarrassing) is your statement “why women are primarily submissive in most all aspects of life” which is TOTALLY dependent on culture… do you have any idea how many instances of matriarchal societies sprang up in which women ran the show or just eschewed men aside from reproductive purposes? Spare us the “but most cultures are this way!” because that is a grotesque attempt to salvage an argument that is suddenly dependent on the culture you did not realize you are already in (patriarchal).

            @ Girl on the net — As a conscientious male BDSM Switch few things upset quite like a Neanderthal disrupting a safe space for people to express their fantasies within the context of mutual respect. Apologies on behalf of the man who is face-palming while watching another…

      • Noone says:

        @ Guy — Yeah… as a male kinkster who is Dom-ing a human kitten/pet… I call BS on this. You have blurred and then crossed the line between BDSM and just being a verifiable run-of-the-miil “chauvinist pig”. Believe me I do not use that term lightly. Why you ask?
        1) You make assumptions about ALL women when gender itself can get pretty vague in definition… just look up “sex chromosome disorders” and as you can see at https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_chromosome_disorders the insistence of people being male or female gets downright comical (not even needing to bring hormonal disorders into the picture). Therefore equally comical is the idea that you can categorically attach other qualities.
        2) You insist “not all of them accept or embrace this” regarding coming to terms with masochism… which quite frankly, is an absurd and dangerous claim to make about ANYONE. Plenty of people are not masochists (male and female) and insisting otherwise is a recipe for disaster.
        YES plenty of people (men and women) love what many might consider to be abysmal treatment but your blanket assumptions on the basis of gender is sad and uses the face of BDSM to justify abuse the instant you say to someone “Ha ha! You like being mistreated and you are not in a place to claim otherwise!” FACEPALM

  • Chris says:

    Bill, your comment is insightful

    I’m about to experiment with another guy who wants to be throat fucked. He seems to really, badly want it. But he’s not experienced, he wants me, as the dom, to teach him how to take it more and do it well.

    So I dunno, we’ll see what happens! I’m more than happy to do it. I just hope he really lets me go hard and so I don’t have to hold back. I reckon I’ll go to the gym beforehand and get really pumped up, then drop by and fuck his throat. I’ve already told him I’m gonna treat him and think of him as a girl, he’s totally totally submissive so hopefully the experience will be enjoyable and fulfilling for both of us! It’s great when you find and make the match between polar desires, I suppose that might be the definition of ‘fulfilling’

    Yeah so might have to ease in slow and test the ground? That’s something I’ve been thinking about, whether to go hard and fast straight away or ease into it slowly

    Comments, feedback anyone?

  • Lisa says:

    Yesterday I had my first throat fuck. I love to give head, but had no idea what a throat fuck actually was.
    First he bound my arms tightly to the bed and undressed slowly as he explained to me what exactly was going to happen.
    He was very thoughtful explaining to me how long he would stay deep in my throat each time. And if I was ok, how he would like to begin to thrust.
    I was very excited and also scared. I loved when he grabbed my hair and held my face so I couldn’t move.
    now I can’t stop thinking about it how I want more.
    He went from Clark Kent, to super dominator and it was incredibly sexy.
    I would like to know what’s the best mindset to not panic over the breathing thing :-)

    • Girl on the net says:

      Oh God god god that sounds awesome – glad you enjoyed it =) I think it sounds like you’re doing all the right stuff – he’s explaining how long he’ll stay in, checking that you’re OK etc. I find it’s quite useful to ‘tap out’ if you’re struggling to breathe (I do this a fair bit, as sometimes the boy forgets just how long he’s been doing it and the fact that I don’t have gills). I’ll double-tap him and he’ll pull out for a bit to let me get my breath back. After a while of doing this, he’ll get a fairly good idea of just how long he can do it for, and he’ll be alert to the feeling of you tapping out when things seem like they’re getting too much. Does that help? I hope it does, although I am notoriously useless at giving direct advice, but this helps me =)

      • Lisa says:

        :-) my hands were bound tight so no tap out option but he instructed me to snap my fingers. Which he respected immediately!
        It sounds like I had the perfect first time teacher! Just hope I can find it again!!!!!
        Oh my god this is addicting!
        Thanks for the input!
        L.

      • Sarah says:

        The problem I have is that gagging seems to be cumulative. My husband really likes making me gag, and I love it too. However, even minor gagging repeated enough times will eventually lead to something much worse than salivating! I remember this from my brief experience with bulimia as a teenager. Last night, during a pretty adventurous bout of face fucking, I basically did a massive sick burp with his cock down my throat – it’s literally the only time I’ve ever seen him lose his erection.

        He has a particularly large cock and I’m really small – I don’t think it will ever be possible to take all of his cock, my tongue gets in the way at the back and it just won’t fit, and that’s only with about half of it in. It’s so frustrating.

        With the gagging thing – do you have to limit how often you’re gagging in quick succession? I’m hoping I’ll gradually gag less as I become more accustomed to it.

        • Girl on the net says:

          Hmm… good question. I have actually been sick a few times when doing this – not normally a huge explosion of vom, just a bit if it goes a bit too far. I think you’re right – there’s something about the repeated nature of things that makes me more likely to. The only thing I’ve done to improve it is get a bit better at recognising when it’s about to happen. I don’t think I tend to gag any less, just that I find it easier to realise when a gag is going to turn into something a bit more – then I’ll give him the double-tap to pause for a bit before continuing. Does that make sense?

          • Sarah says:

            Sounds like a plan – I find both hands on the thighs and a bit of a gentle shove helps (if it doesn’t make him more excited!).

  • delwyn says:

    Hi!
    I’m from germany and just found your blog/website. I’m 23 and male and want to learn about the female mind. I can’t imagine many girl feel like this one, she is actually enjoying haveing a dick in her throat, I can’t imagine how I would enjoy that.
    I tried sticking a banana in my throat to learn how it might feel for a girl and I almost puked after just a few seconds, I can’t understand how a girl would like that feeling.
    It would be like heaven haveing a girl like that though, I’ve never experienced a deepthroat and wish for nothing more right now. :D
    Thanks for sharing
    greetings
    – delwyn

    • Girl on the net says:

      Bless you – that’s actually very sweet =) Thing with bananas is that they don’t feel anything when you shove them down your throat (they’re also a bit hard and rough on the ends). The joy of giving blow jobs comes from the fact that there’s a person at the other end of the dick who is really appreciating it – that’s why I like doing it, anyway. Deep throating takes a while to get used to, and I’m pretty sure I choked and had to keep stopping a lot when I first started, but ultimately it was something I really wanted to do because some of the guys I’ve been with have loved it. If you find a girl who is up for trying it with you, and she’s never done it before, I’d recommend you start slowly – don’t just storm in and start pounding the back of her throat. If she likes doing it she will probably be up for a bit of practice as long as you don’t get too enthusiastic and hurt her while you’re practising.

      • Thomas Roberts says:

        To Girl on the net and Also to delwyn :
        delwyn said the truth about how it would make him feel
        and you know that it brings you there as well
        THIS IS ONE OF THE VERY FEW SHARED EXPERIENCES BETWEEN OPPOSITES THAT SEEMS SO PROFOUNDLY WRONG BUT BECOMES COMPLETELY RIGHT.
        THIS IS THE MEANING OF WHY OPPOSITES ATTRACT.OPPOSITES CANNOT HELP BUT DO EVERYTHING WRONG FOR EACH OTHER – they just do – that is an opposite.At LEAST THIS IS HOW OUR TINY EGOS USUALLY DEAL WITH IT IF YOU ARE STUPID.And this becomes a battleground – HELL.BUT IF YOUY ARE SMART YOU WILL UNDERSTAND THAT YOUR OPPOSITE COMPLIMENTS YOU.THEY CAN DO WHAT YOU CANNOT – THEY ARE THE HALF YOU ARE MISSING – EVERYTHING YOU ARE NOT BUT NEED.TWO WRONGS CAN MAKE A WORKING TOGETHER – INTO A COMPLETENESS.INSTEAD OF TWO HALVES THAT SEEM WRONG WE CREATE A WHOLE.A UNITY – like two sides of a coin.EACH ALONE IS INCOMPLETE AND LOST LOOKING FOR THE OTHER HALF- PART.TOGETHER WORKING WITH THIS UNDERSTANDING OF SURRENDER – (for each is really surrendering to the other IN PLAY – the innocence of children at play -THIS IS ADULT FUN.This is not the meanness – the ugliness of blind uncaring twisted minds that understand nothing.
        IF ANYONE SHARES THIS STRANGE IMPROBABLE MADNESS WITH SOMEBODY WHO HAS GROWN ENOUGH TO APPRECIATE YOU – THERE IN THAT STRANGE EMBRACE IS A HARMONY THAT GROWS – MAKING A CHANGE UNEXPECTED BUT REAL.
        MAGIC BECOMES REALITY.
        HERE (in a sense) HEAVEN IS FOUND. IT IS FOUND WHERE IT SHOULD NOT BE.
        THIS IS THE CONUNDRUM.
        THE MYSTERY OF LIFE THAT EVERYONE MISSES.
        EVERYONE SEARCHES ENDLESSLY FOR HAPPINESS IN WHAT THEY BELIEVE ARE THE RIGHT PLACES.
        AND THAT IS JUST WRONG WRONG WRONG.
        YOU KNOW – YOU FOUND IT OUT – AND YOU ARE TRYING TO SHARE THIS STRANGE IRONIC TRUTH.
        TO FIND HAPPINESS – THERE – WHERE YOU DID AND DO – is not easy for most to understand.
        WHO CAN BELIEVE THAT HEAVEN EXISTS IN HELL –
        THAT IN THE MOST DEPRAVED SINFUL and DISGUSTING DEBASED ACT THE MOST SUBLIME PLEASURE IS RECEIVED.
        (This last statement is not my view but that of those EVERYBODY’S – NOBODIES – THOSE TYPICAL MIDDLING FEAR-FILLED PROPER GOD-FEARING CREATURES who never know but are left in the believing.THESE POOR THINGS WILL NEVER KNOW WHAT YOU DARED TRY.FEAR KEEPS THE PORTAL CLOSED FOR THEM.THEY WORK VERY HARD TO MAKE SURE THAT IS THEIR REALITY.
        A JOKE IF NOT UNDERSTOOD CANNOT BE EXPLAINED.
        EITHER YOU GET IT OR YOU DON”T.
        YOU’VE GOT THE KEY AND YOU FOUND THE PORTAL AND YOU WENT INTO THAT HIDDEN SECRET REALM – and you found the TREASURE EVERYONE SEEKS BUT CANNOT FIND.AND NEVER WILL.
        YOU DARED HEAVEN AND HELL AND WENT THROUGH INTO MAGIC.
        IT IS SO SIMPLE – SO EASY – SO PLAIN – EVERYBODY MISSES IT BY LOOKING SO HARD.
        THEY MAKE IT WORK.
        THAT IS A HELLSH LIFE.
        HEAVEN IS PLEASURE AND JOY – A HOLIDAY – NOT WORK.
        YOU ARE FINDING THIS FOR YOURSELF.
        FINDING YOURSELF ENJOYING WHAT SEEMS ANYTHING BUT ENJOYABLE. TO PLEASE ANOTHER IN SUCH A PROFOUNDLY COMPLETE SELF SACRIFICING WAY – AND SURPRISE – SURPRISE -YOU SOMEHOW STRANGELY IN BECOMING A NOTHING GET EVERYTHING.YOU GIVE YOURSELF COMPLETELY to PAIN AND GET THE GIFT OF PLEASURE.JOY.
        HOW COULD THIS POSSIBLY BE.
        YOU BRING YOUR MAN TO HEAVEN BUT HE GOES NOT ALONE – HE TAKES YOU THERE WITH HIM.
        OR I COULD SAY YOU TAKE HIM TO HEAVEN WITH YOU.
        NOTHING IS AS MAGIC AS THIS.
        NOBODY LOSES>
        BOTH WIN.
        TWO WRONGS MAKE IT RIGHT.
        WE ARE HALFS.FINDING SOMEONE WHO IS YOUR OPPOSITE AND UNDERSTANDS— CHANGES THAT.
        A WHOLENESS CAN BECOME REALITY.
        WE DREAM – BUT DREAMS BECOME REALITY ONLY WHEN WE MEET SOMEONE WHO CAN SHARE THE SAME DREAM.THEY ARE THE OTHER HALF – THE ONE WE DREAM UP – THE SAUGHT AFTER PART NEEDED TO CANGE A FANTASY INTO REALITY.YOU CANNOT MAKE IT HAPPEN BY YOURSELF.WE CANNOT.BUT OUT THERE SOMEONE ELSE IS DREAMING AND YOU ARE THEIR DREAM.NEITHER CAN KNOW THAT THEY CAN OR WILL COMPLETE EACH OTHER. THEY DO NOT COMPETE
        ( if they are wise)
        THEY COMPLETE
        INSTEAD OF A BATTLE OF EGOS – WE INSTEAD PLEASE EACH OTHER
        and VOILA as delwyn said WE HAVE ARRIVED IN HEAVEN

        IT DOES NOT MAKE SENSE – NEVER WILL.
        IT IS BEYOND OUR CLEVER MINDS
        THE SENSE – NONSENSE – OF IT ALL
        IT IS COMPLETE NONSENSE THAT TWO WRONGS ARE THE ONLY WAY OF MAKING IT RIGHT
        BEING GOOD AND AVOIDING THE DEVIL IS OUR GUARANTEE OF GOING TO HEAVEN – so we are trained to believe and try to live.AND MOST STRUGGLE TO BE GOOD.A LIE.AND BY TRYING TO BE GOOD – we are forced to pretend we are non-human.WE deny our humanity- our reality as animals -by trying to be perfect like gods,
        WE ARE MADE TO BELIEVE WE MUST SPEND OUR LIVES TRYING TO BE WHAT WE ARE NOT.THIS IMPOSSIBILITY MAKES FOR A LIFE FRUSTRATED AND SELF HATING.
        ALL THOSE LIVING THAT LIE NEVER EVER FIND WHAT YOU KNOW.THEY SPEND BUSY BUSY LIVES CHASING LOOKING SEARCHING FOR THE LIE.TRICKED.
        EVERYWHERE EXCEPT THE RIGHT PLACE.
        ONLY THOSE WHO DARE TO GO THE WRONG WAY – DOWN – not up into ivory towers of goodness -BUT DEEP INTO THE LOWEST DARKEST FORBIDDEN PLACES OF DEPRAVITY
        FIND A HEAVEN.
        THE REAL THING IN THIS HERE AND NOW – not a pretend one after we die?
        PLEASURE IS NOT A PLACE WITHOUT PAIN
        WE DELIVER BOTH TO EACH OTHER HELPLESSLY CONSTANTLY- SOME DO IT CAREFULLY CARINGLY (with minds and hearts grown like beautiful gardens) -OTHERS VICIOUSLY ( creatures alien – non human – trash heaps -weed and parasite infested chaoses – minds gone mad )
        A FRIEND OF MINE WHO RECENTLY DIED AT AGE 96 and WAS IN LOVE AGAIN – MARIA – An austrian lady who was well educated -worked for the british royal family when the present queen was 12 years old – worked for hitler – among other things —–TOLD ME “SOME PEOPLE ARE BORN BAD AND NO MATTER HOW HARD THEY TRY THEY CAN BE NOTHING BUT BAD”.I am not sure if it a TRUTH but it certainly works as an explanation for UNTEACHABLES.FOR ALL THE ONES WHO JUST DON’T GET IT.
        WHAT YOU FOUND AND KNOW AND SHARE AND TEACH IS WHAT YOU HAVE ALLOWED LIFE TO TEACH YOU – GIFT YOU WITH.AND THANKFULLY YOU ARE NOT KEEPING IT HIDDEN AND A SECRET ANY LONGER.
        IT’S OBVIOUS PEOPLE ARE FINALLY READY AND WANTING TO ENJOY LIFE – AND SEX.
        THAT POWERFUL SPIRIT – EROS – ALL OF LOVE AND SEX -WHICH RULES OUR LIVES – IS A GIFT OF PLEASURE AND BLISS – SUBLIME – THE PATH TO ENDLESS DIMENSIONS OF OUR IMAGINATIONS.
        WE ARE NO LONGER FOOLS WHO CAN BE PERSUADED TO BELIEVE IT IS MEANT TO BE A SUFFERING.
        AND YOU SPEAK SO WONDERFULLY – YOU MAKE IT REAL – HOW WONDERFUL IT CAN BE.
        YOU MAKE IT SO EASY TO BEGIN TO GRASP THE MAGIC – of the immensity of wonder and pleasure we are a part of.WE might never understand it but if accepted and surrendered to — WE FIND OURSELVES IN THE EMBRACE OF LOVE.
        YOU ARE BECOMING A VEHICLE FOR THAT – which is the only way to change this crazy upside down wrongness we live.

        everyone uses the right word but nobody has a clue of its meaning.
        no body understands how to make love – they make things – that make money
        but nobody knows how to make love
        they do everything else in the name of love – war – destruction – whatever. EVERYTHING THEY BELIEVE IT TO BE THEY DO
        cause they don’t know what IT IS.
        IT IS INVISIBLE so they have an excuse.
        THIS iS A MATERIAL MUD WORLD.THAT IS ALL WE ARE BORN AND BRED TO KNOW.
        BUT IT HIDES A MAGIC – SPIRIT.
        no one sees it.
        YOU MET IT
        YOU ARE LEARNING WHAT FEW KNOW.
        YOU ARE GETTING TO KNOW IT AS A FRIEND.
        IT WILL TAKE YOU INTO ETERNITY.
        IT WILL CHANGE EVERYTHING YOU THOUGHT YOU WERE
        WE ARE ALL A PROMISE – A TINY POTENTIAL.
        NOT MANY GO THERE – GROW INTO WHAT THEY CAN BE.
        YOU HAVE GROWN SO MUCH – HAVE GONE SO FAR.
        YOU NEED NEVER STOP.
        YOU ARE LIMITLESS
        YOU HAVE BEGUN YOUR REAL ODYSSEY- passing successfully from this important but limited mud world – into THE IMAGINATION OF GOD.
        THANK YOU.

        that explains this whole experience for b

  • delwyn says:

    Thank you so much for the speedy reply! I wasn’t expecting an answer actually, since the article is fairly old now. :)
    You must be the most amazing girl, seeing that you can do it and that it probably took a lot of practice and that you enjoy it as well!
    I’m also very much surprised that your articles arouse me so much, since I’m mostly used to visual stuff like porn, though I actually quit that a few weeks ago and try to have more sex instead :P
    This technique, like just thinking about having a girl do this for me, is so incredibly hot, it’s ridiculous. As a guy, I imagine feeling very powerful and exptremely manly – just awesome.
    I’ll probably get your book soon, your style of writing seems to be affecting me strongly :D

    Thanks for sharing and have a great day :p
    greetings
    delwyn

    • Thomas Roberts says:

      I TRIED WITH MY SCATTER-BRAIN IN AN IMPROVISED -UNPREPARED WAY TO GIVE A LITTLE INSIGHT INTO THAT MADNESS WE SWIM IN.THAT DIVINE MADNESS THAT DREAMS EVERYTHING INCLUDING US INTO THIS REALITY and in which we in turn dream dreams.I wish to add this.THE PERSON WHO SUBMITS to what seems a degradation and appears to be a helpless powerless victim– IS THE ONE WITH THE REAL POWER.THAT PERSON CAN DENY THE DOMINATOR THE GIFT OF HEAVEN or THEY CAN BRING THEM THERE.THE POWER OF THE DOMINATOR IS AN ILLUSION THAT THE SUBJUGATED SLAVE PRETENDS TO BE VICTIM OF TO MAKE IT ALL WORK AS IT IS SUPPOSED TO.IT IS THE ONLY WAY TO MAKE IT SEEM REAL.THE TRUTH WOULD SHATTER THE WHOLE PRODUCTION.IT WOULD NOT WORK.BOTH PERSONS HAVE TO MAKE THE PRETEND A REALITY.THE VICTIM MUST KNOW THEY ARE THE POWER -THE TOP -IF IGNORANT OF THEIR TRUE POSITION THEY CAN ACTUALLY END UP A VICTIM.AND THE POWER TOPPER MUST KNOW HIS SUPPOSED VICTIM IS HIS NEEDED ALLY —
      HIS PARTNER
      HIS FRIEND
      AN
      ANGEL.

  • audren says:

    OMG. Would that I had read you before. I’ve grown up thinking guys were just pigs, and that no woman would ever like giving a blowjob, let alone being throatfucked. And I had never realized that my enthusiasm about giving oral or even being sat on and almost being stifled was the exact symmetrical lust manifestation of that which I believed was so infinitely degrading to all women. The “woman = sugar-coated porcelain angel” paradigm was so deeply ingrained that it took a girlfriend who almost begged me to let go of my qualms and simply allow her to push my dick hard down her throat for me to realize that it was not my job to question what she wanted, however badly I (as a pig) wanted it too.

    I so love you girls who unapologetically like sex. You unburden us nice guys from a lot of the shame we have carried with us ever since we started having desires. Thank you.

    (and if you have 5′, I encourage you to go read Carsie Blanton’s article “on women who like sex“)

    Oh, and as I have written on my blog (in French, unfortunately), the more I understand how much some women like giving head, the more I am fantasizing about doing it myself some day soon.

  • Well, I’ve written about all sorts of sex on my sexblog, but never what you describe above (google me). I can’t quite see how it would give any pleasure to me. I love providing fellatio and enjoy 69, too, although can’t concentrate too well when I’m receiving cunnilingus, but the fellatio never involves taking in more than about three inches and I usually concentrate on his glans, playing games with his foreskin if he has one.

    No, don’t fancy throatfucking, but do adore penises.

    Angela Goodnight

  • Jon says:

    I ‘ve been getting it wrong all these years. Here’s me: Mr nice guy, respectful, patient, cautious about moving too fast and attentive to my lady’s orgasm. When all along you girls want dominance and a good fucking. Love reading this.

    Maybe I’ll put away the baby oil and forget tender massages just give her dick.

    I have a number of female friends I am attracted too but they know me as the nice guy with a little bit of flirting. Maybe I’ll take the chance and ask them straight if they want a good rogering (brit slang for …..you know).

    Finally had a deep throat recently in the inverted position you describe and enjoyed it but couldn’t come until she pulled out a bit and attended to the glans. Great experience.

    Any suggestions as to how to put it (so to speak) to the ladies?

    • Girl on the net says:

      Woah there. You’re making a quite fundamental mistake, which is assuming that I am the spokesperson for All Women. I’m not. Some girls (of which I am one) totally love things like this, and if you suggest it to us we will get very excited and ask that you implement a throatfucking session as soon as your diary allows. Others don’t like it at all,

      To a certain extent, yes – asking for a good rogering can be an excellent way to go. I find that “I really fancy you. Do you want to shag sometime?” works pretty well on the right person. But don’t assume that everyone wants the same kind of sex in the same kind of way.

      So yes: directness is good, assumptions are bad. Flirtiness (which it sounds like you focus on a lot at the moment) is an excellent way to start. If people respond well to your flirting, get a bit more direct, then a bit more, until: voila – you’re asking them directly. In my experience asking someone directly is the best way to ascertain an enthusiastic yes. And if they say no? Well, you’ve saved yourself some time =)

      • I was writing on a thread on the Everyday Feminism website about what guilty pleasures we have which would be considered un-feminist and I must admit that being taken, being dominated, being fucked is part of it. However I must want to be swept off my feet. It wouldn’t work if I wasn’t willing and being romanced is all part of it. Click my name for more information on my experiences and you’ll see that I far prefer loving experiences to rough play, but it doesn’t mean that I don’t enjoy it sometimes. I know that can give mixed messages, but I never would do this with a casual partner. Now monogamous anyway, but I know I could ask for a rough session if I wanted it. In fact …. where is he? LOL.

  • I recently had my first throatfuck (hanging off bed as described) and it was bloody amazing…I want more too, but I was slightly scared of choking so thanks for the tapping out tip Gotn!
    @Jon, I dont think most girls would respond to a direct “hey btw would you be into throat-fucking/having your throat pounded by me?” I certainly wouldn’t have…but in general I respond well to men enjoying what I have to offer, and if they are enjoying a BJ (and expressing that enjoyment in some audible way, you don’t have to go all poetic, just appreciative grunting will do the trick) then I am thrilled to go harder deeper for them, and love the feeling of surrendering power in that way. My guy started by lowering himself onto me to give me head, (69 style with me lying on the bed on my back, head hanging down) his dick tantalizingly within reach of my mouth, so it was basically simply a question of “here it is help yourself” and then he took it deeper playing it by ear…I had my hands on his thighs and could also control depth if I needed too…It def. worked and the attention he was paying me at the time made it the most awesome orgasm for me ever. He will def. be getting plenty more of that from me!!! : ))

  • Jon says:

    Thanks for the guidance. I don’t think I would ever just come straight out with a request for a throat fuck. The flirting is good and I seem to get positive response, you have now given me a prompt and confidence to take it further, more directly – but only when I feel the girl might be receptive.

    I don’t think I have ever discussed specific sex acts this openly. So thanks for the opportunity and responses.

    Jon

    btw Britbitchberlin7 , fancy a throat fuck?

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    ….joking

  • John KP says:

    “One of my friends likes to greet me by pushing me to my knees ”

    Wow! I’d really like to be your friend! :)

  • haha Jon…only just saw this…well, not sure if your dick will reach all the way to Berlin! ; )
    Update on throat fucking…question to the girls: i always tear up something chronic, despite enjoying it…any explanations on that? Also, I wish I could control the gag reflex, cos of course men panic and think you are suffocating, which is kinda true, but somehow I also love it, but not sure how I would feel about a guy being aggressive about it. Think I would prob, want to regain control. Def prefer the “hanging backward off the bed” position anyways….

    • J says:

      The explanation is that the same nerve that controls your tear ducts (Trigeminal Nerve) relays the sensation from your face, tongue and the beginning of your throat :)

      Also, and to everyone: hothothot. To give and receive. Yes please.

      As someone raised to be a man, but also raised to be a feminist, I struggled (and still do) for a long time with letting go. I always felt that for me to actually dominate a woman would be 1. degrading for her 2. dangerously un-chaining for me (What if I liked it so much I took advantage of the power?) 3. (and perhaps most inhibiting) it would be stereotypical. So I think I lost out on a lot of fun because I refused to believe the women I was with that this was what they wanted.

      It belongs to the paradigm that you have to protect a woman if you’re with her, I think, even protect her from yourself and herself. At the same time you need to be sensible to power imbalances. What changed my mindset was reflection on how I had always wanted to be dominated, and I think it really helped that I began to embrace my desire to be with men as well. Basically it takes time and dialogue and supporting partners, empathy and putting yourself in others’ experiences, it takes you creating spaces where you and they are both comfortable enough to say a. I want you to dominate me; b. I want to dominate you. c. maybe tomorrow we switch?

      So this is something that we’re just beginning to really explore but is immensely satisfying. It requires so much trust.

      But it’s very understandable. We live in a world with unhuman rules and inhibitions, and constant threat, threat of the dangers of sex, violence, disease… To be able to submit to someone you trust and uninhibit them with your body… that’s kind of sacred, I think. And to have someone do that for you, that’s a blessing, that’s really special. Even your animal can be loved. It helps me accept myself more totally.

      Also this: http://i.imgur.com/GZodUwL.gif

  • Random Person says:

    I don’t get, I just don’t get. Why on earth would any girl want to be treated like this? Treated so abysmally and be used like an object and disrespected and degraded, thought of as less than human? No self-respecting person or anyone with self-confidence should want to be treated this way. It’s wrong and sick. And no good person should want to treat another human being that way either; they’re probably psychopath that needs their head examined.

    • Girl on the net says:

      Hi Random Person. Totally fair enough if it’s not your sort of thing, but it very much is mine. As far as disrespect and degradation go, getting throatfucked isn’t a patch on having a random stranger call me ‘wrong and sick.’ I don’t mind criticism, but I’m uncomfortable with you putting on a mantle of fake pity and concern just to tell me how disgusting and awful I am. There’s more here on the degradation thing: http://www.girlonthenet.com/2012/01/15/on-degradation-and-respect/

  • Stuart Jamieson says:

    Love your blog and the fact that you are one of only two filthy twitter account I follow on my work twitter and it pops up now and again with some potential wank inspiration.

    Throat fucking has now become my single aim with every girl I meet.

    But combining this with the zipless fuck scenario is pretty much perfect.

    I am meeting a potential throat fuckee tomorrow night in East London, so I’ll drop you a message, and perhaps some pics if she is up, for it.

    Keep on trucking!

    Sx

  • Tony says:

    I believe that there are only few of us that enjoy this kind of thing, as searching for throatfucking porn leads me to the same videos I’ve seen for the past 10 years…I have moved onto not just throat fucking, but cumming inside while throatfucking…it is the ultimate feeling. The thought of a soft throat squeezing my cock as I’m cumming while deeply thrusting is enough to make me want any woman’s throat…

  • Benjamin Dover says:

    MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM )))

    first, let me say that Woman is the ultimate gift from God …

    and whoever said You are the weaker sex was a Complete Fool …

    You All sound as Adorable and Charming as You are Hottt and Sexxxy

    I don’t particularly enjoy making a Lady gag – but if You like it, well …

    to help control the gag reflex, the old sword swallower trick is just that – to Swallow – just like eating food – when his cock enters Your Precious, Sweet Little Throats, until You graduate past the reflex. Start slowly and practice – it will be a little work for both of You at first, but certainly enjoyable, and when You get the hang of it, it’s a Slice of Heaven …

    My Best to All You Angels )))

    bd

    • Finbarr says:

      In reply to your old mangina quote, “and whoever said You are the weaker sex was a Complete Fool”, copy, paste and read the following article. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-562627/Are-women-really-weaker-sex-The-intriguing-medical-facts-settle-oldest-argument-all.html

      The Daily Mail asked medical experts for their verdicts and they stated men have far stronger bones, bigger muscles, better mental health and immune systems than women.

      • Girl on the net says:

        Hahahaha oh my. You read a sexy article on throatfucking, and a casually appreciative comment about women, and you thought ‘You know what this needs? A link to the Daily Mail to prove that this happy commenter is wrong.’ Amazing.

        I particularly like the fact that the points you’ve mentioned from the article are the ones in which ‘science’ said that men were stronger, but you’ve ignored all of the points in which women came out top. Also the fact that it’s a Daily Mail puff piece adds an extra touch, I think. Top work.

        • Ugh I wanna stay anonymous I think says:

          Not to mention that they posted it almost two years after the original comment!

          • Girl on the net says:

            Yeah. Genius takes time apparently =)

            And to answer the question you posted in the email bit: that’s basically just how WordPress works. It’s not so I can do anything nefarious, honest. There’s a separate place where you can subscribe with a real email ad if you want to, but it’s not compulsory.

  • Bill says:

    Although I’m a guy, I can intimately relate to how wonderful it feels to be very roughly throatfucked. When we were both teenagers, my best friend Larry would do this to me regularly and I LOVED IT !! I loved the wonderfully erotic surrender and suspension of ego that I would experience during the act. It was so exciting that I would frequently orgasm myself while being throatfucked purely from the arousal it would cause. I still love it!

  • 7 and a half says:

    Im like that guy that always gets half of his rod sucked and wish I could jam my cock deep in her throat till she gags and cum in her mouth and she swallows my load, but she dont like the taste :( wish my woman would try the throat thing! Maybe she wouldn’t taste it.

  • superfriend says:

    You ladies put a lot of thought into not gagging or not vomiting. Too much thought. First the guy knows there is a chance you may vomit. If he goes limp he needs to grow a pair. Just sayin. My friend and I are Fantasy Friends. Which means no judgements and no making the other feel gross or creepy. If there is something the other wants to try we talk about it and I write out our thoughts in a story. Then we label doable or not doable. We haven’t found anything not doable. We may have to tweak it a little. But anyways back to throat fucking. I like to submit to him but I’m always in control. The easiest way to get throat fucked and not be scared is start out like any other blow job him on the couch laid at an angle you on your knees between his legs. Start slow and
    Take him deeper and deeper. Them give him control. Let him wrap his fingers in your hair and start moving his hips. Your that will open up for him. The key is for him to place his hand on the back of your neck and slightly massage as he rams his cock down your throat. Swollow at the same time. Then let him thrust and fuck your throat just like he has you bent over buried inside your cunt. You will gag, your eyes will water, saliva will come out your nose and you will cum harder than you ever have in your life if you don’t focus on all the OMG I’m gonna vomit on him because guess what he finds all that sexy as hell. His dick will bend to fit your throat and your throat will stretch to take every inch of it no matter the size. . If it is too much and you feel like you might vomit. Use your hands massage his cock while you breath for a moment. And remember there is nothing wrong with a female wanting it rough. Being submissive. Begging for more. Only weak females can’t handle being someone’s dirty little whore and their best friend.

  • Azguy says:

    My fiance and I like to watch porn. I usually introduce her to new genres to see what she likes. The most recent was bondage/throat fucking. She was very turned on by it!

    I’ve been mouth fucking her for awhile but haven’t been able to completely let go in fear of hurting her. We would role play that she was my niece and I was teaching her how to throat fuck. I would call it the counting game. I would slowly count to 3, gliding my cock on and out of her mouth then on 3, I shove it as deep as it would go and she has to hold her breath as long as possible. She absolutely loves it!

    Last night we were watching a video of a girl who was tied up and was being alternately throat fucked by a white guy and a black guy. My lady was hot as hell and asked me to throat fuck her. She sat on the floor with her back against the sofa, tilted her head back and I straddled her face.

    As usual, I was careful not to hurt her but every time I pulled my cock out to give her air, she grabbed my ass and pulled me back in! At that point I knew it was okay to relax and go for it. I went as deep as I could and she loved it. It felt amazing to freely fuck her face without preoccupation with hurting her. I told myself I wouldn’t cum in her mouth; I wanted to cum in her pussy… But I couldn’t take it. I was deep in her throat, pounding with short, deep strokes as I grunted, “I cummmming”. She pulled it out and pumped a huge load all over mouth and chest. Moral of the story? Yes, some women love it and LUST after having a cock in their throat.

  • Elaine Bradley says:

    When I was 22, I was introduced to throatfucking by my boyfriend. He came over to my apartment late one night, and my roommate had gone home for the weekend to visit her parents, so we had the place to ourselves. We went outside onto my 5th-floor balcony, as we had done so many times before, for me to give him a blowjob, but this time was different. There was a reclining lounge chair on the balcony, and he asked me to lie on it on my back, with my head hanging upside down over the edge. I assumed that position, opened my mouth, and felt his cock slide past my lips. As I licked his shaft, I felt him place his powerful hands onto my arms, his body weight pinning me down with great strength. And then, I felt the tip of his cock press against my tonsils, and as his cock slowly slid past them and into my throat, I began to gag, having difficulty breathing. He whispered to me, “Relax. Stay calm.” And as I lay there completely helpless and vulnerable, he began to literally fuck my throat, allowing me to breathe every 30 seconds or so, as copious amounts of my saliva began to ooze out of the corners of my mouth. I sucked on his shaft as I felt it sliding back and forth inside my mouth and throat, and his balls mashed repeatedly against my lips. I could hear him moaning softly with pleasure as the tip of his cock penetrated deeply into my throat. I focused so intently on his pleasure and on using my tongue to stimulate the flesh of his shaft, that I barely even noticed or reacted when I began to puke liquid as he was fucking my throat. My puke liquid oozed out of the corners of my mouth as the girth of the circumference of his shaft stretched my lips wide, and the tip of his cock continued to thrust back and forth, deeply reaming out my throat. I puked repeatedly, each time keeping my focus on licking his shaft, even as my liquid puke continued to trickle out of the corners of my mouth and onto my upside-down face…onto my nose, my cheeks, my eyes, my forehead, and my hair. In the process of sucking on his shaft, I was actually swallowing back down some of my own puke. But it did not matter. My focus was only on his pleasure and on sucking his shaft. As I continued to puke over and over again, he managed to cum with a large load deep inside my throat, then he thrusted and thrusted to keep himself hard, and then would cum yet again inside my throat, all the while as I continued to puke over and over again. I felt so weak and yet so resolved to make him cum again and again. For a total of 90 minutes straight, he fucked my throat on that 5th-floor balcony, within earshot of anyone walking on the sidewalk below in the dark of night. In that time, he managed to cum a total of eight times inside my throat, while I in return had puked a total of 16 times. It was the most amazing experience I had ever had, sexual or otherwise. I was exhausted and my body was trembling with pain, fatigue, and sweat. And yet I felt tremendous satisfaction as I listened to him moaning with pleasure each time that he managed to cum inside my throat, helping me to forget that I had puked so many times and that my face was covered and coated with a mixture of his cum and my puke. I thought for a moment that our session was over, as he paused his thrusting for a few seconds with his cock still lodged deep inside of my throat. But then I suddenly felt his cock shudder, and then I sensed a warm liquid was entering my throat. He was pissing into my throat, and I realized it immediately, but I objected in no way, and I passively allowed myself to swallow his entire load of piss. It had no taste for me as it was being released many inches past my tongue, but I could still feel the warmth of his piss as it exploded into my throat and down towards my stomach. I could hear him moaning with satisfaction as he released his piss into my throat, and I felt so happy that I could swallow his piss in this way and cap off what had been a remarkable throat-fucking session. With all of my puking, I had probably lost more than two pounds of weight, and the thought of swallowing his piss load turned me on in an unexpected way. I knew that we had discovered a new frontier in our lovemaking, and I knew that we would be crossing this frontier repeatedly in the weeks and months to come. I belonged to him now, as his throatfucking slave, and whenever he wanted to fuck my throat from now on, I would indulge him, even if it meant repeatedly puking in the process, and even if he wanted to fuck my throat in a public place where the very real risk of being caught by a passing stranger would be forever a part of the equation. I was prepared to do whatever he required of me, content to be assisting him in his ongoing pursuit of pleasure.

    • John says:

      There’s nothing hotter than fucking in public. The best blow job I ever had was in Brisbane’s botanical gardens. She swallowed my cock like the world would end if she didn’t. Awesome experience. And the best public fuck I did was on a beach with passers by. It wasn’t a nudist beach either. I was so horny I did a slow fuck for five hours. Would love to do that again.

    • Anonymous says:

      You sound really sick and in need of help. I’m not sure how any guy can really respect you after you’ve willingly let him piss in your mouth after all that. He’ll look at you and remember how much you let him degrade you

      • Girl on the net says:

        Oh my God mate. Do you know how much respect I’d have for a guy who *failed to respect me for fulfilling one of his fantasies*? Someone who went ‘yeah I really want to do this’ then ‘eww I can’t believe you did this’ straight after? None whatsoever. A *negative* amount of respect. And I’d suggest it’s him who needs help.

  • Katrina says:

    Yes, my favorite way to perform oral sex is definitely with my head hanging off the bed. Getting mouth fucked has always been one of my favorite activities in the bedroom. I’m not turned on by getting so gagged that I vomit, but I do like the more aggressive and dominant throatfuck to a blowjob. I always made sure that my partner knew that if I tapped him while he was doing, that mean ‘stop’. With good communication between partners, this can be a really fun way to indulge in oral sex.

  • Bill says:

    I was introduced to throatfucking by my best friend Larry when we were teenagers. We started out jerking off together which quickly evolved into exchanging handjobs and inevitably blowjobs. When It became obvious that I liked sucking cock more than he did, he stopped blowing me altogether and I resolved to become the best cocksucker I could possibly be. His cock was MUCH bigger and thicker than mine was but he was determined to shove it as far down my throat as possible and I liked how it felt to have my throat stuffed full of his cock even though it was impossible to breathe with it so far down. I would get so excited during our sessions that I would often cum myself from those severe throatfuckings. He would usually cum with his cock buried so deep in my throat that I didn’t get to taste his cum. I liked the way his cum tasted so he would occasionally treat me by cumming in my mouth. I’m still a Cocksucker.

  • Kastanza says:

    I Have a bad problem I need help with,thats how I found this page.First off,I never thought much of head jobs as a young Lad.But One day an x GF of mine deep throated me and she choked.After that happen ,my cock grew too a length I, nor her!! had ever seen.

    It was almost possible that she had blown air up my japs eye,or I had just been super turned on by the choke.My x GF suffered for the next few months as I kept trying to jam my cock deep down her throat and holding there.I could not get enough ,I found a new love for the humble blow job and my sex drive went off the charts.
    My next GF after that one was a lot harder to deal with,she would cry “oh you made me choke”I would say oops sorry and go on with the boring sex and my half cocked penis(.
    Since then I have had a few one or two night stands and snuck my cock in there mouth for a quick choke,then back to the sex with my enlarged shaft,so I would do it so quickly,by the time they would complain I was already back to fucking them.
    So my real problem is! I really need to meet a girl who can handle this because I love it and it makes sex better and makes my cock unrealisticly Massive. Or I feel like an asshole by treating partners this way and I need to forget about it.I do love most the partners I have slept with and I do have respect for them but I also want to fuck all the faces.HHMMMmmmmmm God I wish I could meet the OP of this thread ).
    But seriously I Don’t know what to do.And why does my cock get so so big when I do it?
    Am I a bad person?

    • Girl on the net says:

      Yes, you are a bad person. You’ve been sexually assaulting women and then getting annoyed when they ‘complain’ about it.

  • T says:

    Another hot read from you! I love your work. I get so aroused reading your material. I have never throat fucked a girl but always been curious. Does size, shape make any difference when you get throat fucked?

  • A says:

    This forum is very reassuring. I was certain that I was perverted and had a real problem. I’ve never met a girl who was “in” to having their throat fucked the way I would want to do it. I now have some hope that one day I can meet one. I would love the chance to really play this fantasy out.

  • jackson says:

    how many girls like get pissing all over her face . and get face face fuck . puke gagging . get fast roufg throat fuck . my fat chubby gorgeous wife love get throat fuck she swallow my all cum ,

  • Riit says:

    Jesus Christ, this comment section is terrifying.

  • John says:

    Hell I came in my jeans no hands reading this. I wish my cock had fired its load deep in your throat. Would loved to have jizzed up my wads of hot cum fucking your throat hard trying to get you to swallow my balls too.

  • Ex bf says:

    I would just like to share my experience. I had an ex girlfriend who loved getting throat fucked. She would hang her head over the side of the bed and let me go at it. I noticed she would masterbate while I fuck her throat. So we talked about it and she says that by masterbatung while getting throat fucked she gets the advantages of masterbating(she knows all the right spots) with the advantages if a dick attached to a real person. (Emotional, pleasure giving) this was the only time we ever enjoyed an orgasm at the same time. But it took some serious practice. We discovered that if I go balls deep and just fuck her face I will come hard and fast leaving her high and dry. Not because I was gaging her her but because we would have to stop and let her breath. Every time we stop she loses momentum. But she also likes getting gaged. So I tried to fuck her mouth in stages maybe 6 deep thrusts 6 medium thrusts then 6 shallow thrusts. This way we don’t lose our orgasmic momentum and she can remain well exygenated. Lol anyway this worked well for us and this was the only way we could reach an orgasm at the same time. I get pretty vocal and she can tell when I’m about to come. This puts her in to some kind of orgasm overload. We have never had Better orgasms than this. We both felt completely drained and ready to just pass out after this type of orgasm. Maybe one of you guys can try this. Let me know how it goes. Good luck and be safe.

  • MayGodBeWithYou says:

    These comments could scar a person..

  • Narcissus says:

    fucking love it when a girl knows her place.

  • Big Dikk says:

    I held her head as she suck me off but she stopped and said you not going to do anything??
    So i spread my legs,, held her head real tight and throat fuck her as hard as i could!! My eyes was closed,
    I was in the zone

  • Neo says:

    Reading stuff like this always makes me regret being born with a penis lol

    • Girl on the net says:

      Why?

      • Neo says:

        Huh? I guess because it sounds totally hot and like something I would love? I mean obviously being a dude shouldn’t stop you from exploring your sexuality or getting throatfucked or whatever, but idk….. sexy, slutty, small, cute, “fuckmeat-y”, etc still seem like traits that fit better on girls, with gender norms (and the underlying reasons for them) being what they are…

        Ah well. I’m just a kid who’s barely started to live his life, let alone play around with sex. I suppose I’d figure things out in time….

        • Girl on the net says:

          Ah, OK. Yeah I think all that stuff can apply even if you have a penis, so yeah. Gender norms are annoying – fuck ’em =)

  • T says:

    I discovered throat fucking with my ex. It was a revelation. I am naturally sexually dominant but had always supressed it thinking that most likely all men felt like I did but didn’t let it out as it would be incredibly sexist and abussive. My ex was on her knees blowing me and I gave her head a bit of a push, no where near deepthroat or a face fuck. She pulled off me, lent to one side and then ran to the bin. I was really confused and thought I had some how cum without realising (she hates cum in her mouth). Turned out she had been a little sick. I was mortified but then she came right back, got on her knees and looked up expectantly with her mouth open. I was a little shocked and said something like “wait you want me to carry on?! But you were just sick” to which the response was something like “it’s fine, I want your cock”

    Within about 3 months of the above we were already getting deep into a D/s relationship with a shit ton of bdsm of all stripes and colours. It got to the point where I would fuck her in the face with the intention of making her puke over my cock whilst telling her what a nasty little whore she was” Until this point I had never missed anyone before. It used to upset my ex. She would say how much she missed me and I would be honest and say “I love you but I don’t really miss you. I have never missed anyone, not a girlfriend before you, not my friends, not my family, I am just not wired that way, if I am not with someone I just don’t think about them” Within weeks of getting into a D/s relationship I was missing her every second of every day that I wasn’t with her and fucking loving it. And I don’t mean this cynically, I wasn’t just missing the rough sex, I was just missing her presence, voice, cuddles etc. Turns out for me to really fall in love with someone I have to take on a protective, nurturing, dominant role. I need to feel a sense of ownership. However for me that is tied in with sadism, the more I want to protect the more I want to inflict pain and show someone that they are mine, my little fucktoy, my play thing.

    It can be confusing at first. My logical side is well aware that every person no matter skin colour, gender, sex, sexual orientation etc has the same intrinsic value, the right to say no at any time and I am not entitled to a damned thing. My animalistic side is not that clever, it works more along the lines of “pretty girl, make her realised she is my thing and will please me sexually because that’s what she is for” You have learn to let that side out once you have discussed limits and got a safeword in place. Don’t ever make the mistake of thinking all girls are submissive, that all submissive girls will be submissive to you, that submissive girls will be submissive in all walks of life, that submissive girls are door mats. They are not.

    Since the split with my ex (I still mis her by the way as she does me, and it still feeds good, like an unbreakable bond) I have met 3 other girls. I am Polyamorous as are the girls and 2 of them adore getting face / throat fucked. One of them can do it amazingly well and fucking lives for it. I have to physically pull her off sometimes and when I tell her I am done with throating fucking I sometimes have to choke her and hold her down to get her to stop trying to gag herself on me. She has drool just pouring down my cock the entire time. Ah holy shit even writting about it is fucking killing me. The second girl is incredibly submissive. For years, before I knew her, she wouldn’t let guys finger her, reason being was that she felt fingering was for her pleasure not the guys and the idea of somene doing something for her pleasure rather than using her to please them was so horrific to her she couldn’t let people do it. It took reassurce over years from her dominant partner that when he fingered her it was for him, he wanted to do it and he wanted her to cum, he wasn’t doing it for her before she could actually let it happen. I am convinced she might actually be an angel! Of course it’s a bit of a mental trick as seeing as she gets off on being submissive all of it is kind of for her as well.

    For those guys saying the want to experience throat fucking.

    1. Don’t we a twat about it. Girls are not actually fucking objects for your amusement, though it is very hot to let that instinctive side out in the right context.

    2. You need to discuss hard and soft limits and have a safeword.

    3. This can be amazingly emotionally connecting very quickly so watch out this can sneak up on you and or your partner. Be honest with your intentions. Don’t make anyone think you are looking for a relationship if you are not.

    4. Aftercare. Using a girl like this can put them in a headspace where they are totally spaced for hours or even days. They shouldn’t drive immediatly after etc. It’s called subspace. A sub needs hugs, water, kisses, telling how amazing they are, how beautiful, how valuable. She might really like harsh humiliation, objectification etc during sex or as part of the relationshio dynamic but she doesn’t want to actually feel valueless in general, and she isn’t

    5. Where to find these girls. In my experience the following works.

    A. dumb luck
    B. a dating app with a very honest and open profile. Mine outright says that I am dominant, polyamorous, lists the threesomes, gangbangs etc I have had. It puts almost all girls off, but the few who message me are the right ones
    C. munches. This is an event where kinky / bdsm type people go to meet at a pub. It just looks like your average pub full of people (admittedly with more guys wearing black tshirts than normal and far more girls with brightly dyed hair, tattoos and peircing that in the average pub) Don’t brazenly hit on all the pretty girls but chat to everyone, you know like they are normal fucking prople.

    6. Be brutally honest and don’t fear judgement or failure.

    7. If you are cool with, or activly love girls gagging / getting messy, puking whilst getting face fucked let them know. Some girls want to do it but are embarresed because they think you will be discusted with them for gagging or being sick. Even if you don’t like it let them know they you realise it can happen and it’s not their fault.

    8. A girl lying on her back with her head over the edge of the bed or 69 position with girl on top is usually best. Keep in mind it hasn’t got be actual 69 she can have both her legs to one side of the bed.

    For the commenters who say “this is sick, the girls who do this have no self respect. The guys must be psychopaths / sociopaths” etc. You are incredibly incorrect. Of course I am sure there are girls who do it and don’t have much self respect and some guys are abusive wankers. However the girls I fuck in the face are strong and independent, when either is hit on at a bar they have no issue telling the guy to get fucked, one is a complete slut, the other isn’t. Both are fine choices. I am very empathic and get quickly upset to the point of tears if I have or feel I have truely upset a submissive girl. I know it’s hard to understand if you don’t feel that way yourself but someone people like olives and some hate them. Just because someone really enjoys something you would hate don’t project and assume they must hate it but are just too weak and needy to say no. Woman are just as capable of making their own decisions and sexual choices as men are. It’s called fucking equality!

    • Girl on the net says:

      I love you. Thank you for this comment <3

    • Noone says:

      I totally identify with the “fear of being Dominant”. I am normally terrible at reading social cues and I have had a lot of platonic female friends who ALL have stories of guys getting out of control… this meant obsessive caution. I always have to say “ok… she is draping herself on me… maybe it is ok to ask about putting my arm around her?”. For a while my “angle” in vanilla land was to be “lovably clueless” but the joy of my very active local kink scene is that people don’t leave things unsaid… you COMMUNICATE.

  • Chris says:

    This is torture to read. Makes me hate myself for being a “nice guy” that never puts myself out there and talks about what I’d like to try.

    • Girl on the net says:

      Why do you think ‘nice guy’ and ‘throatfucking’ are incompatible? I only do this with nice guys.

      • Chris says:

        Sorry, that wasn’t me suggesting otherwise. Bad phrasing on my part. More to do with not ever bringing it up, suggesting it or talking through fantasies etc.

        Which, now I think about it, isn’t to do with whether you’re a nice guy or an arsehole but whether you have the confidence to voice those things. A part of me thinks I’m going to scare that person off if I bring it up, so I just don’t bother. My problem. Got to work on it.

  • Mark says:

    Loved reading this. I produced a gay series called Gag The Fag, which was inspired by a straight series called Gag Factor. Your observations about throat-fucking were wonderful to read, especially since they’re coming from a woman. Most women aren’t able to both recognize and express their primal sexual desires that way. Kudos to you. ;-)

  • NAS GUY says:

    Not one mention here of being able to suppress the gag reflex in a very sensual woman who truly enjoys giving head and getting throat-fucked . I learned this trick while in the Canadian Military some years ago . Works like a charm . I always “test” try it first with 2 or 3 fingers together . Which sexy woman wants to try it out with me , please ? Alberta born and bred man !

  • ¬¬! says:

    this is probably written by a 40 years fat virgin dude who watch lots of hentais.

  • Steve says:

    Hmmmm, interesting discussion going on here. Besides all the debate over who is debasing whom I think it is all about trust and love. Been around this world maybe a bit too long but I can truly say I finally found the woman of my dreams. It took along time and more than a few big mistakes but for sure I have a partner who loves me so and instinctively wants to do anything she can to make me feel the power of her love. Nothing other than real love and the desire to be everything in the world for me. In the words of some obscure musician somewhere in this world ” every boy doesn’t know true surprise” I kinda like the way she dips!

  • Boy on his knees says:

    I’m minded to agree with the sentiment in your excellent article. Whilst it’s great fun to give a run-of-the-mill blow job, allowing to oneself to be face fucked takes things to a totally new level. As a bisexual man i have experienced both sides of the coin. Allowing a cock to penetrate my throat as deep as it will go while my hands are restrained is the most exciting thing i have experienced, aside from being face-fucked and fucked at the same time – something that takes detachment and the surrender of all power to a new level. To me, face-fucking is about total surrender, acknowledging that the pleasure comes from being used as fuck-toy, a vessel for somebody else’s pleasure. Gagging is less of a problem with time and practice, and the problem of sick can be minimised by not eating close to the act. In my case i mentally become a cock whore, accepting every inch that is pushed into me, everything relaxes and breathing slows enough to allow long and deep penetration. I think i’m a better giver for being experienced in taking.

  • Mark says:

    My ideal woman is one who ejaculates, hard, where there’s no mistaking that strong throb right before I get her flowing until she shivers, loves having her body played with and teased for 20 minutes before she submits to letting me eat her perfect (I go insane for large inner lips and small outer pussy lips) pussy and suck up every drop of her come for as long as I want, until she’s so sensitive that my throbbing dick just entering her causes another orgasm. Then, I like to fuck for hours until we are both shaking. I also would like that next day or two later for her to then relentlessly deep throat me out of nowhere and demand I face fuck her till there’s come all over her face and body. I’d also love to watch two women make out with my load dripping down their faces and tits

  • Don says:

    My wife and I have been married 38 years. At first, she didn’t like sucking my penis. Gradually, with gentle persuasion she started to try it and lo and behold she grew to love it. She didn’t want me to ejaculate in her mouth, but once I got sort of carried away and unloaded in her mouth. She took it all and swallowed every drop, and milked me for more. From that point on when we had sex it was nearly ALWAYS oral. It even got to the point where she wanted me to fuck her mouth. I have a very large penis (girth and length) but she takes it all. We went so long without having vaginal sex that when we did, it was difficult for me to get my penis in her. We went to the doctor and she said that after long periods of time with no sex, the vagina tightens up. It was almost like having sex with a virgin! So, whenever we have sex, it’s about 90% oral. She even enjoys anal sex. But I usually cum too quickly. Even now at age 66, she gives tremendous head. She recently told me she would be fine with me fucking another woman while she watched. But, only oral. For my wife to have started out a prude, she has certainly turned into a sexual dynamo! And she still has a beautiful body. And a little tiny pussy. Still slippery too!

  • EndoB says:

    Lucky you Don. I hope my wife and I can find a similar way together.

  • Biwitched says:

    @GOTN what a wonderful and timeless post. Admittingly have had a wonderful exgf who helped coach me to the level of face fucking she wanted years ago. She and I started our relationship with her being the aggressor but willingly handing me the D/s role. I am comfortable as a switch which we talked about and played with. She wasn’t as comfortable with me in that role but gladly took to pegging me when I asked her to. I had more experience than she did in bdsm and there was lots of communication between us. I will say this, hopefully without sounding preachy, as it hasn’t been mentioned but I have found that the most control lies in the sub. The trust and respect involved in a successful scene or role play greatly resides with the submissive feeling comfort in the dominant to respect their safety.
    As I have aged I have become more fascinated in my bi desires and have acted on a few of them. I have played with a long time gay friend recently who would love for me to be gay but I have told him as much as I enjoy being a sub to his penis that is where my interest ends. I make myself available to his wants and envisioned myself in your OP as yourself described as I have recently enjoyed that same fate and love Love love being used for his pleasure as much as I have in the past been giving that same pleasure to my exgf.

  • Aldo says:

    My ideal woman is one who ejaculates, hard

  • Bt says:

    I’m about to embark on another throatfuckig advenure today, thought I read this post and comment for some inspiration /tips. Friend wants it as deep as possible but it’s not easy because of size problems (big dick can be problematical especially if subject is tiny). It gets painful for me too, so we both kinda suffer in silence for the greater cause! Bizarre people we are. I’ve found coffee before hand is a turn off as the smell and colour when she pukes is disagreeable. Water works but we had the most fun after she downed a pint of coconut milk . Visually it was out of this world – like I don’t think I’ve seen a messier face. Unfortunately I slipped on the mess on the floor and bruised my hip badly. I can recommend safety in the workplace is considered at all times – even after the act.

  • Mike says:

    This is absolutely how It started.

    My wife Peggie and I’ve been married 35 years. We’ve always had good, mostly vanilla sex. Oral and tittie fucking was about as ‘crazy’ as we got.

    We were sharing a bonfire, a bottle of wine, and some conversation after a great dinner.
    ‘Getting older’ came up. With that I told her that she was still a hottie! She’s: Oh stop it you just want a blowjob tonight! Me: True, but you’re still hot!

    And we just kinda continued talking about sex. I told her how sexy she is and how I love to make her feel good. She was mostly listening… smiling and, well, I just kept talking and getting more explicit. I told her how much fun it was to play with her tits and lick her nipples. She says, ‘I really love watching you suck my tits. And when you fuck my tits, oh that’s nice.’ Wow, I’m thinking, she’s never really just come right out and said something like that.

    It escalated pretty quickly from there- I told her how fine her ass looked when fucking her doggy style and how I enjoyed slapping it and reaching around to play with her tits… when she interrupted with: You just want to fuck my ass, don’t you?’
    All I could do was grin.

    This was the moment EVERTHING changed for us.
    Over the last 2 years we’ve pretty much evolved into bondage/ Dom&sub, role playing: rope, leather, gags, pussy and tit slapping, anal…. with MAJOR throat fucking. Every time we start she positions herself with her head hanging over the bed and she actively pulls on my legs to get me going deeper.

    She enjoys ‘letting go’ as she calls it. Her explanation:

    ‘I have to be responsible for stuff all day, all week, all the time. That’s continual pressure, real ugly stress. I love a good hard fucking. Nothing better to wash away the stress than my husbands hand around my throat while he’s pounding that cock into my ass or pussy or mouth.’

    ‘But, the critical thing is this- I am a very ‘good’ girl. When I let go, get nasty… dirty… my mind takes me to a place where it’s okay to say ‘cock’ or ‘cunt,’ or ‘fuck my ass, baby, ‘ it’s a place where I feel like I own myself and if I need something a little ‘dirty’ my husband is a monster, and I like to get fucked, hard, by my own little monster machine.’

    This is where we are now. I’m in heaven with my high-school sweetheart, who likes to be a fucktoy called ‘Bunny.’

    she said, ver batim, ‘God, I love your cock!’

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