Disclaimer: Someone’s linked this off Reddit (thanks!) and now people are discussing this episode like it’s rape. It isn’t. The story I tell here is something that I found deeply hot and that was 100% consensual and happened with a guy I trust very much. Trust me – if I write about something that isn’t consensual, you’ll know, and will be able to taste the rage just by licking the computer screen.
Holy hot angry fucking, buttsex is cool.
It hurts and stretches you and fills you up and aches. It’s filthy. It’s brilliantly powerful because guys go crazy for it.
One of the sexiest things in the world is a guy asking for specifics. Let me come in your hair, wear the pretty boots, touch my cock, please please please let me do this.
More often than not ‘this’ is buttsex.
It’s the sort of thing that guys get really hard for, something they beg for or see as a ‘treat’. If they ask for it and you say ‘yes’ with a filthy grin, it makes them all the harder. Even better, they don’t usually expect women to want it, so if you look a guy straight in the eye and say “fuck me. In the ass. Please.” you’ll get rock-solid dripping enthusiasm before you can say ‘I’ll go get the lube.’
And if you do it right – if you’re lubed up and squirming and gasping as he pushes his dick deep into you – you’ll usually be rewarded with a guy orgasm so hard you can feel it up to your stomach. His cock twitching and jerking as he shoots spunk deep inside your ass.
Girlonthenet is taking a short break right now, and will return in a second when she has finished frigging herself cross-eyed over the thought of buttsex ejaculation.
So – excitable boys and spunk explosions – just a couple of reasons why anal sex is amazing.
But the main reason I like it is perhaps a bit more controversial – it hurts. And I mean really hurts. Depending on the size of the guy, buttsex can either be a bit uncomfortable or a world of agony.
No matter who I’ve done it with, my immediate reaction has always been “ow fuck, ouch, please stop.” And I wriggle and I try to pull away, and I panic. The test of a boy that I really want to sink my teeth into is that he’ll keep on going anyway.
The best boys will push me face down into the bed, put their full weight on top of me, wrap their arms around my chest and my throat, and whisper in my ear that I have to take it. That I should calm down. That I should shut the fuck up. That I’m such a good girl.
This works with other kinds of sex too, but with anal it’s all heightened, because it really does hurt. I can pretend not to want you to fuck me, but you’ll know I’m pretending. When I beg you not to fuck me in the ass, I genuinely mean it – I’m scared and gasping and wet with fear, right up until the moment that you do it.
I was lying in bed with number 26, him spooning me from behind with his massive arms gripping my chest and squeezing the air out of me. His cock was so hard, and he was pushing it right up against my ass.
I squirmed as he forced the head in, gently, then with a bit more pressure until I let out a gasp of shock. It hurt. And he was pushing. And it hurt. And at that moment I really really really didn’t want to.
So I said. “No, it hurts.”
And he said “I’m going to count to three and then I’m going to go all the way in. I’m going to push it right into you. OK?”
And I said “Please don’t.”
“One… two…”
“No. Please no.”
“Three.”
Oh holy fuck.
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Oh. My. God. Now I have a raging; and I mean rock-hard, so hard it hurts, hardon and no one to stick it in. I’ll just have to wrap my fist round it tightly and wank myself into a frenzy.
I think I love you a little bit. You definitely leave the perviest comments. +50 points.
Ha! You have that effect on me; make me horny. Your words coupled with my own imagination(aided by those little teasing shots you take) never fails to fill me with lust and give me a rampant erection. What can I say; I’m a 40year old with the libido of a sex starved teenager.
Another resounding ‘Hear Hear’ from me on the joys of anal. Much to my chagrin I don’t like pain, so take it very slowly and with lots of lube, but I do find the endurance and the challenge (for want of a better word) -intensely- arousing.
Ahhh, this gives me sweet sweet memories of my first time being fucked in the arse with a strap-on… something that definitely works for this guy as much as it does for you. The pain and the pleasure are inseparable… two sides of the same marvellous coin.
I love anal sex. No surprise there. But I’ve found that not do most girls I’ve been with actually agree to it, they want it. So I’m not sure I fully agree with you there. Also, it should not hurt if done properly. Maybe a tiny bit at first, but if it’s agony then it’s being done wrong. You aren’t relaxed or lubed up enough. Ok, if the guy is huge then fine. I’m not huge, but average, and I’ve never had a girl in agony whilst doing it. Most have either been between slight discomfort and full on enjoyment with them pushing back on my cock, wanting more.
@B – as a girl who really enjoys anal, I can tell you it hurts… even when done right. It’s just usually that once you get past the “oh my god why am I doing this” pain, it feels awesome.
Don’t get me wrong, sometimes it’s just a little pain, sometimes it’s loads. Even with the same guy. You just never know on each occasion.
But… I never tell the dude when it hurts that much, I just keep moaning in a sexy way and hope that it goddamn fucking passes so we can get to the good stuff.
Ooh, thanks Dove – you put it better than I could.
@B – you’re right, a lot of girls do like it – I suspect not all for the same reasons and I know that there are some girls who can especially enjoy it for physiological reasons. Basically, I think it’s generally underrated by girls (most of the ones I’ve spoken to, at any rate) although I suspect the readership of this blog will mostly be in the “Buttsex? Fuck yeah!” camp =)
@xabl – I will write on this at some point. Suffice to say I agree that’s pretty hot, but it’s had mixed reactions from gentlemen I’ve been with.
Painful, really? Maybe with a huge guy (I once avoided anal with someone that was so huge, it was like a table leg). But other than the first few tries, I’ve never felt pain like you describe. Discomfort yes, pain no.
My trick is to totally relax the muscles consciously. Totally works for me. Then I can get on with feeling huts cock hit right off my gspot. Anal is amazing for that.
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I did this for the first time recently… and let me tell you there is no other pain that can compare… but damn and fuck me… I am now addicted to getting fucked in the ass.
And that’s only the tip of the iceberg… GOTN is totally right, feeling a man cum into your ass is the greatest feeling ever. I have never felt something so amazing… damn I get wet and hungry just thinking about it.