Instead of spending the first paragraph of SoSS beating myself up for not doing it for a while, I’m just going to get stuck in, and include a couple of extra links to make up for it. Check out the sexy link roundup below, and please share the ones you enjoy!
Hormonal changes during egg donation – Oh Glow
I am entirely fascinated by the changes that hormones make upon the body. When I was young and getting schooled in very basic biology, I had a wibbly grasp that ‘hormones’ were these things that would mildly change your mood: making you angry or weepy occasionally. But they are so much more powerful than that, and Oh Glow’s fab piece about hormonal changes during egg donation explains some of the effects, as well as talking through some of the personal reasons for choosing to donate eggs.
Thrill of the outdoors – Sub Bee
This week’s Kink of the Week topic was ‘risky sex‘, and as a fan of risky sex myself, I really enjoyed looking through all the entries. This one, by Sub Bee, got to me because… well… I’m basically still a teenage goth at heart.
“One of my all time favourite risky sex spots is a graveyard. Spending time around churches at night meant dark areas of graveyards to fuck in or drop to my knees and suck a boys cock.”
K is for kidnapped – Missy at Focused and Filthy [CN: consensual non-consent]
I’m always in awe of people who can take incredible, evocative, sexy photos to go on their own blogs. And these ones look like a fantasy I’ve had a fair few times…
This was a post for Masturbation Monday (check out the other entries at that link too!), and it got me because Floss writes the aftercare as precisely and beautifully as the initial humiliation, to the point where I can’t decide which I like more. OK, maybe I can…
“’Do it.’ and as always she needs some physical encouragement, my fingers twist into her hair and I push her face into the mess she has made, reminding her once more that she’s a naughty girl who deserves to be punished. I catch her eye as she begins to lap at floor, and that look is everything. Humiliated and degraded she is consumed by shame, these things she lets me to do her are beyond convention, they are, to most people’s mind depraved and disgusting. In fairness they are depraved and disgusting and that is why they are so much fun.”
Income for August – The Smutlancer
This is a weird one to include, because it essentially just amounts to a list of different income sources and how much Kayla earned from them each month. BUT if you’re a sex blogger and you’d like to understand a bit more about how to make money from this stuff, Kayla is radically open and honest about what she does, how she does it, and how much she earns. That’s incredibly valuable to anyone wanting to break into the industry and not only do I salute her, I also fucking love her with every single piece of my nerdy little heart.
I don’t have the detail to do this kind of radical honesty, but I have just done my taxes so I can tell you I earned just under £25k this year, after tax, which is a fairly slow year for me thanks to my being quite ill for a lot of it. I’ll do a breakdown at some point because I promised other bloggers I would.
Eroticon – new speakers (and submit your own session)
Seeing as I haven’t done this in a while, here is your regular (ish) plug for Eroticon. Happening in March 2019, and now starting to announce speakers for this year. There are some awesome people already lined up to speak including Dr Eleanor Janega from the exceptional Going Medieval blog, talented and skilled photographer Exposing 40, fantastic erotic author Kay Jaybee and loads more. Buy tickets, submit your own proposal, or just sign up to the newsletter if you’re not quite ready to join in yet.