Guest blog: Why I have a cum fetish

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This week’s guest blogger is Katrina England – she writes erotica (which is available on Amazon) and she’s here to talk to you about something I’ve waxed lyrical about before – spunk. Spaff, cum, come, jizz, or whatever you want to call it: if you’re a fan then you’ll love Katrina’s guest blog, in which she explains – in detail – why she has a cum fetish…

I have a cum fetish: here’s what that means

Cum: some love it, some hate it. I, for one, love the gooey mess that only a thick load of jizz can provide. The streams of warm, white fluid being directed at me convey a powerful message, one that tells me that I have done a thorough job providing an extreme degree of pleasure. I love to get it almost anywhere on my body, be it my face, tits, or ass. I love to see the ecstasy of my partner as he releases his heavy load with complete delight.

Experience during adolescence might go a long way in explaining why cum play leads me to such a state of heightened arousal. I remember having the ‘spit or swallow’ discussions with my friends back in high school, and the most common answer was spit. Doing anything else was considered taboo and degrading at the time. But neither spitting nor swallowing was my preferred method of dealing with a guy’s finale. I wanted to play with it, and let it slowly drip down my body.

I have thought many times about the numerous times I have let men cum on me. Some of my partners, despite delivering excellent sexual performances, could not deliver memorable amounts of ejaculate. Others, however, provided me with voluminous amounts of jizz; a few were like firehoses being directed at my body.

My most exciting experience being on the receiving end of a cumshot happened when I was in my mid-­twenties. The stud who delivered the goods was in his late thirties. We had been dating for a few weeks, and I knew he had a natural ability for producing large amounts of semen. What a waste, I thought, for him to continue dispensing all of that warm, creamy goodness inside a condom.

One night I told him I wanted his load all over my face. He was eager to provide me with what I asked for. After giving him a long blowjob, he pulled his cock out of my mouth and began stroking it vigorously. I tilted my head back and waited for him to unleash what I had built up with my oral skills. I reflexively closed my eyes as I felt the first ropes of cum land on my forehead. Although I couldn’t open my eyes and see it all as it landed, I could feel it dripping everywhere.

He squeezed out every drop that remained, shaking his cock so that it made its way to my face. Once he was finished, I opened my eyes and looked up at him. I told him to go to the bathroom and bring back my handheld mirror. I wanted to see what I looked like drenched in his goo.

Holding the mirror a few inches from my face, I stared at myself in amazement as I inspected the mess we had made. And I say *we* because I take a lot of credit for pleasing my man in such a way that he erupts like an uncontrollable volcano.

Making a man cum makes me feel powerful, like I hold all of the power in my hands (and later all over me). When I see the last drops of cum dangling from a hard cock, I know that I have used my skills and sex appeal to maximum effect. Spitting or swallowing is not for me. I would rather indulge myself in being covered in the cream that I helped produce. Let the fruits of my labor drizzle down my chin as I celebrate the erotic pleasure that has taken place.

53 Comments

  • Stefan says:

    I find it incredibly hot to read your thoughts about cum. I’d love to read more. I wish you’d write you next book about it!

  • D.J says:

    Something a crazy kind of sexy about a girl that gets off on making a guy cum on her. I feel like if all the people that say it’s degrading were to read this post they might understand the power it can give a girl. Or maybe not. Either way, awesome guest post.

    • Bitz says:

      Personally… Not me. ESPECIALLY if I haven’t orgasm. I won’t want to know he came much less have it close to me. When he comes he can stick it up his ass. In my mouth? No! On my body? No! If he makes me cum the sucks it then sure! This can make a woman feel sexy not a man using u to cum den letting ho of his load on or inside u cum on! Too much focus is placed on male pleasure and women believe their partner’s pleasure equals theirs. So dumb

    • Partater says:

      If I was a girl I would do the same. I love my own cum

  • Arousing story … but … I’m not as keen. I don’t mind semen dripping from me at all, but I far prefer the wonderful sensation of the moment he comes inside my body. The twitching, the warm sensation, occasionally the trigger for me to join him in his orgasm. Alternatively I also love to feel it come inside my mouth. His most violent ejaculations seem to come that way and the second pulse is always so strong. I love feeling it hit the roof of my mouth or the back of my throat. I swallow. Have never delighted in the taste of semen, but to spoil a good coming by not swallowing has always seemed sad to me. A few seconds of a bad taste should be no problem for the one you love. I also give him a snowball and that adds the most amazing togetherness. Done a few posts about that.

    Anyway, while I love the story, for me put it inside me every time. Incredible sensation and the knowledge of it having been produced for me, exclusively for me. Yes.

    • James McGarry says:

      QFT. Yes indeed. 💗

    • Kay says:

      I agree with the post as well as your comment. Im sitting here searching up semen fetish because I need to know what I have. I love sperm!! I love it in me, in my mouth, on my butt, breast, legs and thighs I swollow I spit I suck it back up ans swallow again. I love it. What is wrong with me. I discovered my love at an early age but I’m only yet to realize how seriously obsessed I am. Its crazy but I love sperm. I love the penis spitting out its ooze and throbbing to completion. I love how u have to get rough with it at the end to pull it on out. I love to watch a man jack himself to satisfaction. If my partner doesnt finish I don’t feel I’ve done my job. I have to feel it someway somehow.

      • Ken Lowe says:

        I love you and any other lady that loves to swallow my cum

      • Slutaddict says:

        I’d love to fuck you how can
        A girl not like cum I’ve dp girls before and guys csme on me accidental I liked it I had him
        Actually I jerked him
        Off till
        He csme on my face after and I’ll admit I opened
        My mouth and ate half then sucked thenhead of his dick that night he woke me and put his dick in my
        Mouth it was so hot

    • Druff says:

      Nothing better than cumming inside of a women, especially when she is getting off and she starts to milk the cock and when she grips the tip and I blow a load inside her, then watch it drip out of her and eat her out……

    • Cacup9in says:

      Love your feedback would love to chat with you from time to time

  • tracy says:

    TI thought I was the only woman that this craving. It started right after I gave my first blow job to my first boyfriend. We had been making out a lot and he was pressuring me for sex but I was so afraid of getting pregnant. My best friend told me to just suck him off but also told me to not let him cum in my mouth as it was disgusting. A couple of minutes in my mouth which I truly loved and he let go! The taste and feel wass so great I reached between my legs and bamm I got off! I didn’t even want to drink anything so I would not wash the taste out. Now years and dozens of men cumming in my mouth later I am married to a man that knows I like doing it but has no idea how many men filled my mouth. And how much I crave other mens juice. He thinks I do it for him

    • Italian31 says:

      Would love to fill your mouth with my hot goey load

    • C hr says:

      I have 10 inch with pearly white cum.

    • Jeff says:

      Few of my ex girls, always wanted me to cum as much as i could, ejaculating loads of cum made them extremely aroused .. they even asked me not to cum for a week and then unleash the hot load all over their tits and faces.. so i think it is normal

    • FLP says:

      Tracy, I have literally searched my whole adult life for a woman with your cravings. I was fortunate enough to have a GF for a year or so that learned (with me) that she relished semens texture (how it felt on her teeth she said), when she swallowed. Unfortunately she was like most women though, she much preferred the feeling of my ejaculating vaginally so this was much more the routine.
      I have difficulty finding erotica on the subject: women that GENUINELY crave fellating (especially slow & lovingly) / thrill from the feel of the man ejaculating in their mouth / ACTUALLY enjoy & savor semen. Many women say & act for the benefit of their men (pretending they want it here or there), but it doesn’t take long to see it’s an act. Oral sex, performed for either gender, is a very intimate experience in my mind and is hard to equal. I really don’t know if I would have a problem with your “dozens of men” in the past, or even more men currently (it could be hot to bring a buddy over for you to enjoy?!), but in response to another post, NO snowballing. I crave my ladies juices and hope she really craves mine, but I have no interest in tasting my own. I dream of a woman with your thirst, partially because I feel it’s more than a carnal act of release once shared. The crux of it is I can’t even find what to call it beyond “cum fetish”, “CIM”, “cock worship” or “cum play”. (Half of those searches usually pull up gay porn). If I can’t even find the hetero porn how would I search out individual women with this same kink?

        • FLP says:

          I believe you’re getting me confused with other men: I’m not whining about lacking libido or perversity of women in general. I’m seeking a specific kink. I read the article & agree with most of it. That’s NOT me. You might get blown away by the same comments & complaints, questions & requests, but I’m not sure you’re not grouping me into that by some kind of gender default. I know women are horn dogs too and just require a bit more mental stimulation (than men are often willing to give). I’m not faulting women, I’m just seeking what I can’t find or even… struggle to label?

    • Todd says:

      I love the thought of a woman conquering my seed by swallowing. I love thinking how her body overpowers my seed and it becomes part of her. That you have conquered so many men makes you powerful. Your husband is just another you own…

    • PJ says:

      Where you live I’d love I’ll fill your mouth full of my juice boo!

    • Karla says:

      Tracy, I feel exactly like you !! I am now 57 years old and date mostly younger guys, one reason is that younger men have larger loads ! I LOVE to watch guys shoot and love when it is for me. My latest guy is 34 and very open to all types of cum play ! So exciting to watch them go down after we have sex and he has filled me ! Fantastic !!!

      • Firm9in says:

        I love women like you Karla….not afraid to know what she wants,…..I love mature sophisticated cum play…..wish yu were in New York

    • Cacup9in says:

      I love you Tracey…..a true artist a genuine soul

  • Hazeleyes64 says:

    thank you for your comments, tracy. If only I could find a girl like you. But I’d want to know about all the other cocks you suck. I would be approving and encouraging. Unless you love doing it in secret You don’t have to tell me. I will suspect and it will make me produce a big load for you. I love girls like you.

  • Bobbie Brannum says:

    I like looking at women’s butts in their jeans I’m a man that loves hairy pussy i have one leg still have a nice cock

  • Phil says:

    I got curious a couple weeks ago and started tasting my precum. Then started drinking pineapple juice several times a day, and now, I absolutely LOVE my sperm. Its warm, creamy and goes down so easily. I try to swallow my cum daily. Totally LOVE it!!!

  • Melissa says:

    I have a hugeee cum fetish too! I prefer swallowing it 100%, but I’ll take it wherever aha. Here’s a little story if you’re interested haha. Sooo, I’m actually with a guy now that actually has the thickest and lumpiest cum I’ve ever seen in my life. His loads are just off the charts. I’d be lying if I say his cum isn’t a reason I left my fiancé for. I know, I’m rotten.. but I was overwhelmed at the time. My fiancé was so nice too. He made way more money than me, and was sooo hot. The guy I’m with now is chubby and unemployed, but his cum is sooo pretty. He’s also the only guy I cheated on my fiancé with. It only happened because my fiancé was traveling for work at the time. I wound up going out with an old girlfriend of mine from school that I haven’t seen in a while. And one of her guy friends was there. He doesn’t really drink, but him and I were talking for a while. I drank a lot and I was horny. I probably let him in a little closer than I should have when we were talking. Eventually, I told him I would never cheat on my fiancé. So afterwards, he kept offering to just eat me. I eventually gave in and we went back to my place. When I drink a lot, stuff is usually a blur to me, but not that night. haha but anyways, I left my skirt on and just pulled my underwear down. I thought it was gonna take a while, but I was about to cum in like 2 min. I was horny and he was goood. Lmaooo but he stopped right before I came. He asked if he could put it in.. I thought about it, but l said no. Then he asked if he could jerk off and cum on my face. I said okay as long as he finished giving me my orgasm. After he came, I was sooo shocked how much my face was covered. It went all in my hair, my pillows and my beds headboard haha I could feel how thick it was by it just staying in place on my face. I told him if he can get hard again to put it in me. He never even asked “really?” And I don’t think he even got soft. It’s like he put it in before I finished telling him to put it in haha how much I have a hugeee cum fetish too! I prefer swallowing it 100%, but I’ll take it wherever aha. Here’s a little story if you’re interested haha. Sooo, I’m actually with a guy now that actually has the thickest and lumpiest cum I’ve ever seen in my life. His loads are just off the charts. I’d be lying if I say his cum isn’t a reason I left my fiancé for. I know, I’m rotten.. but I was overwhelmed at the time. My fiancé was so nice too. He made way more money than me, and was sooo hot. The guy I’m with now is chubby and unemployed, but his cum is sooo pretty. He’s also the only guy I cheated on my fiancé with. It only happened because my fiancé was traveling for work at the time. I wound up going out with an old girlfriend of mine from school that I haven’t seen in a while. And one of her guy friends was there. He doesn’t really drink, but him and I were talking for a while. I drank a lot and I was horny. I probably let him in a little closer than I should have when we were talking. Eventually, I told him I would never cheat on my fiancé. So afterwards, he kept offering to just eat me. I eventually gave in and we went back to my place. When I drink a lot, stuff is usually a blur to me, but not that night. haha but anyways, I left my skirt on and just pulled my underwear down. I thought it was gonna take a while, but I was about to cum in like 2 min. I was horny and he was goood. Lmaooo but he stopped right before I came. He asked if he could put it in.. I thought about it, but l said no. Then he asked if he could jerk off and cum on my face. I said okay as long as he finished giving me my orgasm after. So, after he came, I was sooo shocked how much my face was covered. It went all in my hair, my pillows and my beds headboard haha I could feel how thick it was by it just staying in place on my face. I told him if he can get hard again to put it in me. He never even asked “really?” And I don’t think he even got soft. It’s like he put it in before I finished telling him to put it in haha He actually was able to cum 2 more times! I swallowed the next one, and he put the 3rd one on my tummy and landing strip. After that night, I kinda had a sexual thing for him big time! He doesn’t even have an attractive body, but I saw past all of that. I broke up with my fiancé 2 days later when he got back. There’s a part of me saying I made a mistake cheating on him and breaking up with him, but another part saying that I didn’t make a mistake. But, if I did make a mistake, I guess I kinda got what I deserved for breaking up with him.. Because there’s not chance at getting back with him since he’s dating a model now. And not only am I having to support myself now 100% without my ex fiancé income, but I’m financially supporting the guy I’m with now too.. being he’s unemployed, and he moved in with me. He also knows how much I’m in love with his cum. I tried to hide it, but I couldn’t. He knows how to use it against me now. If there’s such thing as something called “cum whipped”, then that’s meee. But whatever, when I see and swallow it, I forget about life for a while haha. Thanks for reading ♡♡

    • FLP says:

      Yes, a woman that enjoys the consumption of, the taste & texture like Melissa does. How could anything be any more intimate? A woman with THIS craving is what I search for….!

    • Slutaddict says:

      I have only read you left your fiancé for a chubby guy with no job because you love his cum I want to lick his cum out or every orifice you have every body part your a dream girl
      Truly :) my gf and I love each other but we Fuck otherness people don’t see how it’s related really she has a fiancé and theee boyfriends she gets off duxmirn th the best friends I get Off in her being fucked all day and using her after not to mention ducking h r best friend thst life’s with us and such now total honesty ima
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      Me want to get you to swallow my cum My girl would let your man creampie her but just complimenting ya

    • hughes says:

      Great fucking story

  • Joe says:

    Sounds awsome, but want to see you do it.

  • Nance says:

    Great stories. I too love the feel of cum and adore masturbating with it all over my vag. I refuse to stand up after Intercourse for fear it will run out of me too fast and I’ll run out. The sensation and feel of cum is unlike anything else.

    • Laura says:

      Get a menstrual cup. You slip it in after sex with how ever many you are doing and it holds the cum.in you. I hate having to remove it after 12 hours. But for a while i get to carry the life essence of another person. When I am pregnant it’s three of us in me.

    • Nya says:

      Omg this what what I’ve been looking for someone to say, everyone keeps saying a breeding fetish or s bug Catcher .. that’s not what I am I loved being creampied the most the more it turns me on then I master bate with it while it’s worn once it runs out I’m sad I wish I could get CREAMPIE GANGBANGED. but how do I ask this ? I would like men to wait two weeks then run a train on me and creampie me how can this even happen ?

  • The feeling is wonderful, looking at my man and seeing him cum is breathtaking. And definitely, it makes me feel powerful.

  • fuzzy says:

    Always nice to see other cum fetishists out there, yay! Just clicked through from GoTNs latest missive.

  • Alex says:

    My wife has a sperm fetish. To her, it’s like whipped cream–she loves it. I remember the first time she gave me a blowjob. We had been together for a few weeks (dating) and finally one night it happened. What was so interesting was that she didn’t even want sex that first time. She went down on me and gave me a blowjob that I had never in my life thought was possible. It was insanely hot and the whole time I couldn’t believe this was happening. She was saying things to me during the act that blew my mind. I tried to have sex with her but she wanted to keep up with her BJ. Finally, as I was about to cum, she told me she wanted it all over her face. I was incredulous but obliged. She stroked my cock with her tongue sticking out and then I exploded. She absolutely loved it.

    Twenty years later, it’s basically the same with her. We have sex more than BJs but her fetish with my sperm has only gotten stronger. She loves the taste. She likes it all over her or in her mouth. She eats, licks and swallows it. It’s truly like a fetish. Her sex drive is insane, too–I imagine it’s fueled by this fetish of hers. So it’s an interesting marriage for sure. I guess I’m pretty lucky.

  • Anonymous says:

    Some women love swallowing semen…I will never forget how my first wife would most of the time when we were having sex go straight to my cock put it in her mouth when she knew I was about to cum and swallow it all with pleasure … for some reason she loved it…It energized her she would say…not only when we were together but with guys before me and after me…she said it also keeped her from getting pregnant and give into penetration ….

  • Bill says:

    “And I say *we* because I take a lot of credit for pleasing my man”

    And that’s well deserved credit I can assure you. It’s something akin to edging I think, the more aroused I am and the longer spent building up excitement the more force and volume I produce, and the more volume and force directly correlates to how good it feels while I’m having the orgasm.
    You working to increase the effects and your lucky subject that is receiving that attention knowing your goals also is a big turn on. If I know a lady is into cum she’s increased her attractiveness and desirability to me.

    On an unrelated tangent, I don’t know how it is with other men but there’s something other than simply “how pretty” a woman is tht does it for me. I don’t know if my attempt to describe is will be understood but I’ll five it a shot.
    There’s certain quality, and devilish “I know what you want and I’m gonna whup it on ya” expression some women are naturals at and it comes in combination with an attitude to match and probably some subtleties that I notice on a subconscious level. It’s a flirtatiousness you know is about sex, and it’s not a passionate type it’s rather a “this is going to be so much fun” sex she’s directing directly at you and she’s really fired up and it may be because she saw that you noticed her in that way and I think a huge component of that is …she knows she’s nailed you and she knows you are aware of it. And she’s right.
    When I encounter someone like that I’m hopelessly smitten. It’s not about love it’s something that will make you have lustful thoughts consume your day.

    And it has almost nothing to do with our concept of “pretty” with the exception of the wicked grin that’s saying “gotcha” and quite different than a generic (for lack of a better word) smile you might get from a lady who might be very happy to see you, as you might get from a friend or a relative… but her’s is dripping with lascivious intent and again, she already knows it’s a done deal and all that’s left is the ceremonial lickin’ and stickin”.

    Bottle whatever that is and you’ll own the planet. I’m 63 years old and I’ve only seen it maybe 4 times, ever..
    But ladies, you don’t have to have that for me to say “thank you” for all the “oh, my” moments and there’s a hint of it in all of you.

  • COHF says:

    Nice COHF article

  • Mark says:

    You should try bukkaka.
    Maybe jerking off guys under neath the table at clubs to get covered in there cum.
    Imagine how powerful you could be to make lots of guys cum from a night out.
    You would be stealing away any womans chance to be fullfilled for the night, if you helped out there dance partner & making alot of men happy in the process & be able to wear your badge of honor. Why stop at just 1.
    Maybe dogging would be an easier outing for you, with advertising.
    Good luck & hopefully you bring some of that cum soaked joy to pornhub.

  • Rob says:

    My wife is has a cum fetish and is totally addicted to sperm. She works at [redacted]. We regularly invite two mutual male friends over and she blows us. For her 40th Birthday I organized a blowbang for her from about 20 guys at a strip club and 5 College guys from a local bar.we met up at a motel in Boston and she swallowed everyones load including my friends and I.She mentioned that [redacted]. I mentioned to her about the ovious health risks involved with these practices but she just says she enjoys it too much to stop now. When she [redacted]. I admit I enjoy watching her swallow other guys cum but Im concerned she will have health issues at some point. Should I consult with a psychologist about this matter or just let her continue?

    • Girl on the net says:

      Hi Rob, there’s nothing inherently unhealthy or dangerous about swallowing someone’s spunk, although to ensure safety it’s worth taking precautions to prevent against STIs. There’s some info here on the NHS website but I’m assuming you’re not in the UK so you may want to research STI provision in your local area: https://www.nhs.uk/live-well/sexual-health/visiting-an-sti-clinic/ If you don’t know the provenance of the semen or the STI status of the people with whom you’re fulfilling these fantasies then yes there are increased risks involved in that.

      I’m afraid I’ve had to redact some of your comment as the things you’re talking about are potentially illegal for me to publish here on a sex blog. But for what it’s worth, I think you need to have a conversation with your wife about this – let her lead the discussion, and listen to her carefully. Tell her that you enjoy what you’re doing but you are worried about the stuff you mentioned in your comment, and offer to do some couples counselling with her where you can both sit down and discuss this together and each have a space to chat about how you feel. I certainly wouldn’t advise visiting a psychologist without her – involve her in your concerns, but don’t dictate what you think she should and should not do.

  • Peter Zimmerman says:

    I love what I have read, I’m hard n want to jerk off, but I would love for a woman to let me know I could shoot my cum all over her body. I’ve jerked off my whole life even through two marriages. I like to dress with sexy panties on n show my ass outside n I have woman slow down n look, I even show my cock at the front door when girls n woman walk by!

    • Girl on the net says:

      “I even show my cock at the front door when girls n woman walk by!” This is sexual harassment. It can be incredibly frightening for the women you’re doing it to, and also it’s illegal in most countries. Don’t do it.

  • Steve Caldwell says:

    I wish I had a woman like you. I love when a woman loves to drink cum and get it all over her. It turns me on so much, my dick gets harder than the first time.

  • Steph says:

    YOUR THE FIRST! I have the exact same fetish and have been trawlling the next for the past 20 years for something ANYTHING and that picture is marvellous the only thing is I wish someone would shoot some videos. i deliver a decent load and have videos up on various sites but any partner I have been with not so exceited. Still this is a great start

  • Ken says:

    I have plenty of photos and videos.

    I love doing cum tributes to hot photos and videos

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