Guest blog: Long-distance lust and the Lovense Hush…

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I don’t normally post branded toy blogs other than ones about my site sponsors (cos a girl’s gotta eat, innit). But this week’s guest blogger got in touch raving about the joy of the Lovense Hush smart butt plug, and how much fun it had been to use it in a BDSM dynamic over a distance. And who am I to turn down a post about getting dominated over a distance? It sounded right up my street, so I hope you enjoy it as much as I did…

Long distance lust and the Lovense Hush

I remember when I got my first vibrator. It was a Rampant Rabbit from Ann Summers and I honestly wasn’t sure what all the hype was about. Until I tried it. Oh. My. God. Why haven’t I had one of these forever?! It was an experience I will never forget. Fast forward a couple of decades and technology has meant that the world of sex toys has become a sexy version of Narnia, with people practically throwing themselves into the wardrobe.

One advance that has taken place is the app controlled toys that can be enjoyed by people in long distance relationships. When I first heard of them, I was taken back to the scene in the Big Bang Theory when Howard created the long distance kissing machine. However, it’s a little simpler than that.

Lovense Hush – a really smart butt plug

I’ve been involved in a long distance BDSM dynamic for about five months with a friend I have known for a while. Recently, he suggested getting a Lovense Hush, an anal plug that he could control via an app. The fun aspect is that it can also be used for clitoral stimulation so it was a nice little two for one. I jumped at the chance and after a few days, I was standing at my window, waiting for the delivery driver so I could pounce on him and get my new toy.

The delivery driver escaped unscathed and I had my new shiny.

Now, I have quite a varied toy collection and thought I had experienced all there was with regards to a toy that vibrates and gets me off. Oh how wrong I was.

Lovense Hush butt plug - black smooth silicone plug with flared base

Image courtesy of Lovense

Domination over a distance

When my Dom took control of the Hush, all I could hear in my ears were his chuckles as he tortured me by putting it on full power and then denying me with just the smallest buzz it could muster and even sometimes, switching it off entirely. Needless to say there was a lot of begging from me to put it back onto full power.

A BDSM dynamic means relinquishing control to someone and that in itself is exciting. But when it is with someone who lives several thousand miles away and they are playing you like an instrument, it is another feeling entirely. I found myself cumming harder than I had before and didn’t want it to end. Couple this with my Dom instructing me to use my other toys and I was a quivering mess.

We have used the Lovense Hush in several sessions and it is a fun toy for mixing things up. For those in a long distance relationship and looking to spice things up, I cannot recommend this toy enough. The battery life is also fantastic. There have been sessions that have gone over two hours and there was still half the battery life left. There are others in Lovense range that are specifically for vaginal play, but I do enjoy anal so this was the perfect toy for me. Other fun aspects are being able to set it to vibrate to music, which I have to say is an intriguing experience. There is also the ability for other users to post their own patters which you can try out using your own toy, so there is a lot of variety for when your partner isn’t available.

The app is user friendly and easy to go through and work which is awesome for those who may not be as technologically minded. What I will say is, the cost may seem a lot, some are more than a hundred pounds, but the website does some fantastic offers and the fun is well worth it.

If you’ve been considering one of these toys, go for it. You won’t be disappointed. I would recommend waiting until the weekend or until you have a couple of days off from work, you’ll find yourself a bit worn out and in need of some rest.

Well, until you use it again…


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  • Polly says:

    YES! This could have been written by me 😂 It’s been SO good for virtual play dates during lockdown, and also for some cheeky out-and-about fun. What this thing does to me is insane. Everyone should have one!!

  • Oxyfromsg says:

    I love that technology is making it so that distance does not have to be a complete barrier as far as sex is concerned.

  • SpaceCaptainSmith says:

    I love the idea of this. Remote controlled sex toys are such a fun idea, and doing it long distance over the Internet is even more awesome. Would love to try this one day!

  • Phillip says:

    To think that I have always gotten by with email.

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